"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Went out with some friends. I ditched the two chix I was with to hang out w/guy friends to sarge. Opened 8 sets, two walkaways, mostl positive responses, a few married ones w/hubys present(ops), one make out for about an hour and two or three new numbers in my fone book which is getting full :(

I guess we did OK, will see what tomorrow brings. My two set that I came with spotted me w/other chix. I guess I'm out of that set ha ha. Yes being a PUA takes u from the guy they want to get rid of, to the guy they wont leave long enough to use the ladies room, least we be snatched up. I love being the prize
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Do you mind sharing some techniques/examples you used?
 
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This is pretty poor for a FR. Shouldnt really label it as an FR as it doesnt have any of your convo's or techniques.
 
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yea well I DJed at a Club last night.. tonight and got hit on by hella hotties danced with some during long mixes infront of there man.. didn't care.... and well that is it...

lol good job serge on!!


Phuck Knut.....
 
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Being the prize

That is the technique I used: being the prize. If you're the prize damn near anything would work.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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