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FR: Today's sets.

ElStud

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So what sets did I approach today? Well, there was this one girl this morning I talked to but this dude named Sam literally ****blocked me. So I literally ignored the Sam guy and kept gaming her despite Sam yelling all this AMOG stuff at me. So eventually though she looks interested, the girl leaves, so that's kind of the first set. The other group wasn't really interested, they'd occassionally laugh at my sh1t, but I could tell they weren't really interested in what I was doing. And the third set? It went kind of like this...

The approach
So it's near the end of class and I start talking to the Lauren girl about her weekend. Blah, blah, that happens we vibe and stuff and that part of the interaction ends. Then I get back into the interaction saying "I bet that's where she takes her boyfriend when she doesn't want her parents to know she's with him" because she's talking about this house she has in Lake Erie or however it's spelled. So I started telling her how I thought her clothes were unique and stuff and told her that thought her clothes were really cool, because they stood out and didn't look like what every other girl wears. Eventually this other dude who's a friend of mine says "Yeah, it is cool man". So eventually I don't know how but me and her start talking about what girls do at slumber party then she says "We watch videos" and I say "Pornos?" and shocked she goes "Mike, totally innapropriote". So the bell rings and I hug her and she hugs back.
Pretty good interaction, she didn't resist the hug.
 

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ElStud

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Need some advice on this.
 

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You probably should have said something like, "Oohhhh, what kind of videos?", implying porn. You were too forward with it. Other than that, you were probably fine.
 
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