"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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FR: Timed Execution

bachelor

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Alright, so I've been talking to this girl on facebook. She's a tall blonde nice slim body. She blew me off the first few times I tried to meet up with her. So, she finally sends me a message to hang out with her friends or hang out with just her before to get to know each other and make things more "comfortable."

I decided to meet up with her and we met over at the Subway Station. I was late I usually try not to but sometimes things happen. As soon as I arrive, she complains about some random guy that try to hit on her and she immediately tells me I need to buy her a few drinks for the waiting. I laugh at her and say "We'll see if your worthy."

She takes me to a bar and we order drinks. I decide I'll take the first round and she tells me she will get the second round. Once we're relaxed she begins talking about some guy that she's "talking to." I know what shes trying to do and I don't let it affect my game at all. I just kinda shrug what she's saying and stay focused. My main focus was to hook up.

We finish our drinks and we go to another bar. Here's where things begin to get a little bit more intimate. But, while I am there I have some other guys who are trying to get her attention. I decide to use this as an opportunity for LOI. It works perfectly because the other guys are offering her shots and I'm just talking to one of the other guys about random stuff... Eventually, the guy offers me a shot.

The other guys have to leave and that leaves her and I. I already made my move by making out with her. I did my usual move of the whisper in the ear technique and slide right in for the lips. I had to be at work in the morning and she knew that. We begin to talk about sexual experiences. I'll get it out there this girl is pretty down. She begins to tell me that she wants to hang out with me but she knows I have to work. I tell her it's no big deal. This is where things begin to get very sexual.

I grab her hand and tell her "We're going back to my place." She doesn't decline so I take the lead here. We finally get back to my place and we make out hard core. We're kissing pretty heavy for twenty minutes until we land onto my bed. I take off her clothes and she happens to have a condom with her. Let's just say I took care of business.

When we were finally done I passed out and we both left in the morning. It came to my conclusion the reason I hooked up here is because I passed a big test of hers. And that test was how would I handle the fact she was talking to another guy. Really, I could have cared less. She took the time to meet up and that is what it is.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Outline of what exactly you said when she was explaining the guy to you Im just curious to know.

My method is usually just if she mentions something,I say something like "oh cool" and make a smooth transition onto something else.How did you go about yours?Similar to mine?
 

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619joe said:
Outline of what exactly you said when she was explaining the guy to you Im just curious to know.

My method is usually just if she mentions something,I say something like "oh cool" and make a smooth transition onto something else.How did you go about yours?Similar to mine?
same thing im wondering
 

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When she was talking about the guy, I made my mind wander. I acted like I really didn't care. I threw her a line and I said " Obviously he's not cool enough to be with the two of us right now." Once I hit her with that line she immediately stopped talking about the guy.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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bachelor said:
It came to my conclusion the reason I hooked up here is because I passed a big test of hers. And that test was how would I handle the fact she was talking to another guy. Really, I could have cared less. She took the time to meet up and that is what it is.
Really? So it had nothing to do with:

-making out @ the bar
-drinking alcohol
-whispering into her ear
-Being assertive in your actions
-talking about sexual experiences


You do allllllll of these things and then attribute the lay to passing a sh!t test? I don't get it...
 

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Those are all keys in what I did to hook up. But, if I would have become "defensive" when she mentioned the other guy, I would have been going home alone. I think in every situation there is a key test. I think in my situation my test was her mentioning the other guy.

Before we met, we had a few conversations on facebook. Most of the conversations we had were her talking about this guy. It irritated me that she would mention some random guy that she is not even in a relationship with. However, I blew it off. What did I do " I blew it off." Most guys would have become defensive here but I refused to do so!
 
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