"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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FR: Thursday 8/9/07 Peck of the night!

Ken785

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I went out to an 18+ club thursday night with fellow member VIK. Did a few approaches but one really stood out. I pushed VIK to open this 4 set of girls. Then i jumped in and was talking to one of the girls hb7, then i tried to number close but she said not now...then i go to her HB9 friend and said that her friend HB7 just broke my heart, she said she didnt want to give me her number right now...HB9 says "AwW...why would you break his heart like that??" Then i got good kino on HB9 holding her hips close to me and stuff. She was trying to drink my drink and hand it to her friends...

Ken: Hey...there will be none of that! I wouldnt want you to get me sick!

HB9: Oh...dont worry, im not going to get you sick..

Ken: I dont like germs,eww...thats going to cost you!

HB9: Whats it going to cost me?

Ken: So if we kissed right now im not going to get sick tommorow right??

Then she kinda pecked me...then i told her that wasnt good at all! Then she pecked me again, i number closed her and she kinda walked off with someone else..i guess he was a chode and buying her a drink...because she asked me before and i didnt.

I didnt feel it was a solid close but its a start...called the number yesterday and it went straight to voicemail...going to call again tommorow and if i get voicemail again im going to sing sweet love songs in her voicemail....:up:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ur becoming a wussie singing into her V/mail
 

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Bahaha dude it was a joke I'm pretty sure and if it was that's great hahaha gotta try it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Not bad...did you talk to her before you left that night? Her getting bought a drink by someone else is no biggie, you're the one that got her number. Give it the standard couple of days and see what happens.

Let us know how it goes!
 
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