"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Come on people do you guys have to lower your standard to pick up trashy girls.

The walmart FR just makes me laugh, you really think you can find quality girls with standards at walmart? Well it is a hit or miss.

What I'm trying to say is if you like to date girls or marry a possible wife that lives off food stamps or from a poor family and has a child already, go right ahead.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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bbestar said:
Come on people do you guys have to lower your standard to pick up trashy girls.

The walmart FR just makes me laugh, you really think you can find quality girls with standards.

What I'm trying to say is if you like to date girls or marry a possible wife that lives off food stamps or from a poor family and has a child already, go right ahead.
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She didn't work there. She was just a customer. And I'm not looking for a wife.
 
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At least Dollar Store girl has a job. In fact, a cute girl works in the Dollar General next to my house. Thanks, I'll go hit on her tomorrow.
 
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Wow, I'm offended. I work at Walmart. On another note, there's this one girl there that I'm pretty sure 80% of this board would be too afraid to approach. That's not to say there aren't a few pimps on this board that would approach her without a problem. I'm just saying... I don't think 80% of this board would have the balls to approach a girl like that.

Also, what the f*ck does it matter where she works?! Atleast she has a job.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The OP is full of stupid assumptions. I live in nj and theres a walmart right by one of the rich towns bordering NYC. Its not like rich people totally avoid walmart. Its stupid to say that only white thrash go there when its the only place to do your shopping. But maybe things are different in canada.
I'd like to see this loser post a good field report.
 
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The OP is full of stupid assumptions. I live in nj and theres a walmart right by one of the rich towns bordering NYC. Its not like rich people totally avoid walmart. Its stupid to say that only white thrash go there when its the only place to do your shopping. But maybe things are different in canada.
I'd like to see this loser post a good field report.
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STFU dumb ass
 
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Poor girls are the best girls to bang!

They are!

The best girls are the ones that hang out at a place like TGI Friday's. This is because most of them have just recently finished High School, and they are working some type of a secretary job (which you have to be attractive to be hired for.) They go to TGI Friday's after work and eat potato skins and Sprite and they do it because it's CHEAP and most of them DON'T COOK! The fact that they are attractive and poor makes it the perfect crime, they see you and use their vagina to try and convince you to have a relationship with them, you keep banging them until they try to make it expensive (trying to have a committed relationship where you pay for most of their things), and then you move on to the next victim.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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BrianKozmo said:
I don't think he means people that work there, but people that SHOP there. He's saying, if they're not trash, why are they shopping at a dollar store? But in my experience, you can't just associate everyone that shops there as trash. Many people do it just to be cheap, not because they're poor. I know ppl that shop at places like this all the time, and they're decent people trying to be responsible. (myself included). They're trying to make it on their own and live on a good budget. If they're younger and shop at places like this, then it usually indicates they're trying to be responsible (like they have other things to worry about as well like a car and an apartment). If they're older, usually they're just poor. Haha. But still, it's not good to make assumptions like this.
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IF he's saying people that shop at a dollar store are trashy then hes out of his mind. i buy stuff at a dollar store by my house, and by no F*kin means am i trashy, i work for a Bank downtown NYC, own a mercedes benz and have my house but i still shop at dollar stores. OP is way OFF!.
 
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