"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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FR: This is how we do [ learn some new "techniques" here ]

Daddy The Pimp

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I dont post FR very often because things that happen on field might sound unrealistic and cannot be explained. They are not about techniques. They are about vibe , sexual tension and emotions that i put her on. But i posted this because you can learn from it. Enjoy.

Tonight , before i went out , i just knew it was ON. I was on state , and i just got a new haircut :p. I slept before going out , recharged my batteries. Anyway , we arrive to the venue with my two wings , we get in and start dancing. We separate , and i go straight to this two set. Target (HB9) and her friend (HBF) that is also hot.

I go straight to her and open her with this line :
" Hi , im DTP and i had to meet you ". I watch her straight onto her eyes. At first she was WTF but when she saw than i kept my frame , she said " Oh , hi , im HB9".I ignored her friend.

I throwed Tim's plotline on target " Ok , for the next 5 minutes , you're my new girlfriend ". Again i kept my frame , my reality. She is drawn by it. She laughed.

DTP: What do boyfriends and girlfriends do ? They hold hands I grab her hand. She laughs and hold my hand.

I tell her im breaking up with her . I tell her its not her fault. She laughs.
We proceed with random conversation where i talk to her friend too. I call her friend DORK. She starts calling me Jackass , Jerk and anything else. Target starts to get confused. I start to loose my status of a cool guy. So something pops in my mind. I start focusing on her friend now. I tell her that we can be good friends. We can help each other pick clothes , lie to each other when we ask if we look good. She starts laughing and the situation changes. I say OK , FROM NOW ON , WE ARE BEST FRIENDS. I keep talking to them a little bit more and then i ask the "friend" if its OK if i kidnap the target for a few minutes. She says OK because now she loves me. I putted her on a frame that she's my friend and she MUST help me.

I grab targets hand and lead her another corner of the club. This part is difficult to explain because its all about the vibe , the sexual tension that we exchange. I look deep into her eyes when i talk , i feel sexual about her and she must feel it too. I start smelling her and i make out with her.I try to put her boobs out but she doesnt let me. I try to get her to my home but she says that she can't tonight. I say i understand. I didnt care to fvck her tonight. The thing is that i ran a solid game on her , she is super attracted to me and im calling the b1tch tomorrow for a "cuddle challenge (credit:Tamer from RSD)".On Sunday , usually i have nothing going on.

A summary:
  • Girls love role playing. You can use You're my new girlfriend for new 5 min. or "my new assistance" , " my new bodyguard" etc.
  • You can disarm obstacles by putting them on a frame that they think they are your friend. They might also help you with the target
  • Keep your frame and reality and the girls will be drawned to it.
  • Sexual Tension is one of the most powerful tools on my arsenal. It can be your weapon too.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Nice. Opener doesnt matter cuz it just meant to open.

You won over the friend. Played solid game on target. Good stuff.
 

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WTF man, that was great!
 

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Solid Game!!! (DTP on his piff as usual)

you need proper Inner Game to pull this off, and congruity

good stuff

Solo

P.S. IMO advanced gaming is beyond "techniques" its just being yourself, this is why when I talk to chicks now instead of "gaming" I just let the interaction flow naturally, now you may think its gaming, but I'm more direct then ever before (however to do this you need to have swagger/inner game/ and the basics down

p.s.s lol @ "what happens on the field cannot be explained, KBJ's I hope you read that. This is why to me lot of this "guru" and "teacher" stuff is irrelevant.

:p
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Daddy The Pimp

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Solomon said:
Solid Game!!! (DTP on his piff as usual)

you need proper Inner Game to pull this off, and congruity

good stuff

Solo

P.S. IMO advanced gaming is beyond "techniques" its just being yourself, this is why when I talk to chicks now instead of "gaming" I just let the interaction flow naturally, now you may think its gaming, but I'm more direct then ever before (however to do this you need to have swagger/inner game/ and the basics down
Thanks man.

Thats the mindset that we should have . We are not GAMING. We are just exposing our cool personality to them. And yea , you should have inner game and you should overall know your values to be successful.
 
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