"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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FR: The Trials, Tribulations and Joys of Clubbing

Hughman

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Well, yesterday was my last day of college, so as you can imagine it was a big night out for everyone, and day to be honest.

I acquired an ID off a pal, but never even had to use it. (this keeps happening, lol, but when I don't have an ID I run a 50% chance of being checked)

Lunchtime, did a tour of a few pubs with my friends and loads of other ppl from my school and our partnered girl's school. Had a good time, bouncing around, chatting to people, push-pulled on various girls (I think I might be on to something with one of them, but she's real shy and I'm yet to have a good moment to isolate her [since I've joined the community])

Now for my first real clubbing experience in the UK. Hit the club that all my friends rave about. It was a bit of a dump, and a sausage fest and for £2 more I could have gotten into the best clubs in town. Nevermind, I still made the most of it.

I bounced onto the dancefloor, vodka redbull in hand, and met and greet my mates. Wasn't looking for women, just out for a good time to celebrate being 'Old Boys', but the ones I could see where either taken or fugly. (or both, hehe, poor afcs)

Still, a short time later I was sitting on a couch and one of my mates passes by with two of his friends from a vet course. One is a real cute little American brunette, and I chatted to her for a while, then pulled to the dancefloor, then I'd bounce off, come back, bit more groove dancing, grinding etc Then a while later i come back to her, and find her making out with her vet friend. Nevermind, moved on, also found out they were both 22 - didn't look it though.

Later in the night two attention *****s barged their way into my crowd of guys and as most of them are chumps, they were effectively prized and pedestalled. I stepped in and grinded both of them in turn. They wandered off, and when I saw them outside later I didn't get any recognition, again nevermind.

Now for my last chance. A cute, real ****able, but ultimately slutty looking blond caught my eye. I bounced, we danced, we made out a little. Score? No! She pulled out, caught my friends eye, who looks like me but is 6 inches taller and doesn't have an ounce of fat on him, and they made out and then disappeared 20 minutes later. That did annoy me slightly, he should have given me room, then again, few guys know how to wing properly.

I think in future clubs like that are not my thing. I need a much more upmarket club, with a good selection of electo and dance music, or I'll start frequenting some swish jazz/dance bars.

I know you guys say height doesn't matter, but it does I think. Girls will look at the taller gusy first, so it's an uphill struggle to get their attention, at least with ease. Also, it's a rel bother trying to get through people, and the number of elbows I took the head during mosh/rave dancing is silly.

Still, you live and learn, and I'm getting far better, I'm certainly far better at this game than most of my friends, and I'm nearly at the stage of the guys with the best natural game.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Kevin Feng

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Height definitely does make a difference, no doubt about it.

They always emphasize that physical looks don't matter, they really do, but what you should take away from the message is that you shouldn't hinge all your success on your looks, because if you do, it's going to get you in trouble and you'll find excuses NOT to hit on women.

Believe me, after hanging out with Mehow and Asian Playboy, arguably two of the ugliest PUAs, I don't have a doubt in my mind that gaming without looks is definitely possible.

Learn to approach more sets, check this article out, it should get you jump started in the PU scene.

http://theasianplayboy.blogspot.com/2006/05/impact-approach-30-seconds-to-make-it.html
 

Hughman

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Kevin Feng said:
Height definitely does make a difference, no doubt about it.

They always emphasize that physical looks don't matter, they really do, but what you should take away from the message is that you shouldn't hinge all your success on your looks, because if you do, it's going to get you in trouble and you'll find excuses NOT to hit on women.

Believe me, after hanging out with Mehow and Asian Playboy, arguably two of the ugliest PUAs, I don't have a doubt in my mind that gaming without looks is definitely possible.

Learn to approach more sets, check this article out, it should get you jump started in the PU scene.

http://theasianplayboy.blogspot.com/2006/05/impact-approach-30-seconds-to-make-it.html
Yeah, I agree, I have no issues with my looks per say - of course I'd love to lose my underbite and have a strong chin, and to have a few more inches in height and length ; ), and for me to lose my pot-belly and to get ripped - but I know I'm not bad-looking and I've had plenty of good comments about my hands, eyes and hair, and the way I dress and hold myself.

But having game + good looks > game alone.

I know I should have approached more, but it's hard as I'm still with a bunch of guys that consider me this weedy and pathetic social retard, and that affects me still. Next time I'll hit up a sauve dance club or bar with just a few friends that know how to wing properly.
 

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Hughman glad to see you still out on the field

But you cool with your wing taking your chick?

Thats kind of shady to me, as long as you go out having fun its all good.

and don't worry about what your wings think man, whats so pathetic about talking to women? if they aint with it, go out alone thats what I did/do
 

Hughman

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Solomon said:
Hughman glad to see you still out on the field

But you cool with your wing taking your chick?

Thats kind of shady to me, as long as you go out having fun its all good.

and don't worry about what your wings think man, whats so pathetic about talking to women? if they aint with it, go out alone thats what I did/do
He wasn't a wing, just a pal of mine. The girl was pretty slutty, she went cold on me and went for him in a blink. He was pretty wasted so he wasn't thinking straight, but has better natural game than me (plus he's taller and void in bodyfat) As I said, he was not a wing, so I don't have any issues, he didn't even number close her, the idiot.

And as for the other guys, again, they weren't wings, just mates and other guys I know from school, living it up. I wasn't out to pull, but I'm always ready to! I've got 3, maybe 4 guys that know the etiquette of being pilots/wings, so I might bounce into town and hit a trendy bar with a few of them.

I've got a pretty empty month ahead of me now because of my final exams, only got one 18th planned and the guy organizing is a real chump, the only girls there are his fugly cousins and one cutie (he's her gbf, hehe, and I plan on having a good game on her). Though I need to get my feelers out and acquire a number or two from the nearby girl's school - prom is coming up and I blew my chances in my group of friends for a Prom date, but there are plenty of unrelated fish in the sea : )
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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