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She was this cute girl I met at Bianco Ultralounge. Most of the people I meet there are complete Long Island TRASH! She however was a rather intelligent cutie from the U.K attending college at Stony Brook University.

The night started out with me not wanting to go into the club. As Joe and I waited on line, I tried to change his mind. I was tired and not in the mood.

After a half hour of waiting on line we entered the club. It had been awhile for me. The music and the lights sucked me in and I was instantly in state. I went in tornado style, acting like a fool, dancing around. I must of got her attention because she ran her fingers through my hair.

She was with a guy and another girl. I danced with all of them equally. I grinded against the guy as much as I grinded against her. After some dancing she stole my button-up shirt (she used a LOCK-IN PROP on ME!) and we both happened to be wanting to leave the club at the same time. I got Joe who was leaning against the bar not having a good time. (and he was the one who convinced me to go there in the first place.) On the way out, I opened the notepad application on my cell phone and she wrote her full name in there so I could find her on the facebook. I left in a plain white t-shirt not mentioning that she had stolen my shirt.

I got in the car and saw the 3 of them in the parking lot. She stopped me and I rolled down the window. This was when she asked me "Are you gay or bi or something?" I laughed at her and Joe screamed "THAT WOULD MEAN I'M HIS GAY LOVER! GET OUT OF HERE!" she from that moment on has always though Joe was the biggest d!ck ever, and he is.

After talking to the guy (who wasn't gay, but I think he's in the closet) we made arrangements to hang out so I could "get my shirt back." I visited them at their dorm and a group of us hung out for 4 hours, til about 4 in the morning.

Then there was an event going around the facebook saying that it was her birthday and she was getting some people together to go to the movies and go back to Bianco ultraloungue. I accepted the invite and just happened to have that day off from work. (I didn't request the day off, but I get 2 days a week, it just happened to be this thursday night that she was having the get together.) I hung out with Farrah that day and when I left Farrah's house I called the cute birthday girl to tell her I was in the area and wanna see the movie. (They were seeing I Love You Man, which was hilarious and I wanted to see it anyway.) I got to the theater.

My friend was working there so I told him that a bunch of people from Stony Brook would be coming in to see I Love You Man, and when they did he should say "Kevin is waiting for you in the theater." He did and they found me.

There were about 10 of us and her and I sat 7 seats apart.

Afterward I went to Bianco Ultralounge and had HBK come meet up with me to keep me company while I waited for the lovely birthday girl and her friends to go back to their dorm and get dressed for the club. I also ran into Meghan who helped kill some time, I hadn't seen her in awhile. The girl and friends showed up at the club in which we danced around for awhile and had a good time.

Afterward we went to the diner and I bought her scrambled eggs. (Sorry David D)

She then noticed I was tired and offered me to sleep on the floor of her dorm. I was shot so I couldn't refuse.

She gave me a blanket and pillow and then tucked me in on the floor of her living room. Then she went in her room for a little bit, then went to the bathroom and as she was walking there she noticed I was still awake. She asked me if I wanted some mouthwash.

We shared a relatively strange moment in the bathroom as we barely knew each other and stood there in silence, me mouthwashing and her brushing her teeth side by side, in separate sinks. I finished and said good-night.

Obviously at this point you can see that things were going nowhere, and I wasn't doing anything to make things happen. I was just being me, which she would ultimately like, as you will see when you read on.

I wake up before my alarm on my cell phone. I had to be back at my apartment by 10 AM to shoot a scene for my film class. I told her I was setting my alarm for 9. At 9 she came into the living room to make sure I was awake. I'm a real mush when I wake up in the morning.

This will sound AFC

I grabbed her leg and mumbled "good morning." I pulled her to the floor. We lay there for a good 10 minutes. "You were so nice to me! You took care of me, gave me mouthwash, and a comfy blanket! Thanks so much." I kissed her.

I went home. It was raining, which sucked.

She wrote to me on the facebook that her pillow smelt like me.

She then went on to find some videos on youtube because of some guy that googled my name. She was entertained and called me on Easter to ask me: "Why didn't you tell me you were a youtube celebrity." That was a 30 minute discussion.

HBK goes to Stony Brook University so he actually ended up going to Texas with her for a school trip. They became friends. HBK got in touch with me earlier this week because he wanted to go to the city. He suggested we invite her.

HBK invited her for me and we made plans on the facebook to go to the city. I had her meet me at my house, when she got there my friend was there watching playboy so we hung out in the kitchen. The apartment was clean so I guess she liked that. He left and we waited for HBK to arrive. We watched the movie 21 as we sat on my air mattress on the floor.

HBK called me to let me know he was there. By this time we were cuddling. "Are you gonna let me up?" I asked her. She was clearly comfortable. I kissed her and then forced her off of me. I greeted HBK at the door. We hung out in the kitchen for a little while then took the train to Manhattan.

We had no purpose for being there. But the weather was nice so we walked around and it was nice to walk along the hudson river. We went to some Indian place, and had a few drinks at THE PARK on 10th ave. She had fun.

HBK number closed on the train. We got back to my apartment and HBK went straight to his car to go home. To return the favor for the time she let me sleep over I told her she could stay if she wanted. I had already caught her texting someone earlier that night saying "I might stay in Nassau tonight" which is where I live. She knew was she was doing.

It was past 4AM. I let her in and we kinda went out separate ways, me to the bedroom and her to the bathroom. She brushed her teeth with the extra toothbrushes that I always for situations like this. I changed my clothes and as soon as she opened the door I went in to brush my teeth. I got back to my room and she asked me if I had any pajamas. I dressed her up and she went in the kitchen to change. I watched her turn her back to me and I was surprised at how much tension there was between us. This was cool.

I thought to myself "I don't know what kind of girl this is...I don't have any extra blankets...she might not want to share the bed." Before she came back to the room I took everything off my coffee table so I could remove the fleece blanket that is there to prevent the table from getting scratched. I folded the blanket and put it on the bed where I planned on handing it to her.

She came in the room and said "So do you like sleeping against the wall or on the outside?"

She knew what she was doing.

I told her it didn't matter. We got in bed together and my red lava lamp made us look...well...red. A cool effect.

We tried to go to sleep but that clearly wasn't happening. She had other plans. She kept talking, and not letting me fall asleep. She claims I made the first move on her but I barely remember because I was so tired. I did kiss her a few times, which was me going into her, and then gauging her interest by paying attention to how active she was with her tongue during the kiss. As time went on and we talked some more, the kissing became more and more passionate.

She started turning me on by just happening to breath in my ear. I started to say things like "Okay lets just cut the bull sh!t." However I was really turned on by the fact that I wasn't escalating her at all and things were just kinda flowing naturally. She said something like "It will happen eventually...I don't want to give it all away the first time we sleep in a bed together." I was at peace knowing this. I honestly like to know that a girl is going to stick around. Plus, I was overtired and the thought of having sex with her was just exhausting.

I had already made plans to hang out with her again so it really wasn't in my best interest to try and get with her. But suddenly I found myself all worked up and unable to fall asleep.

She gave me and hour of LMR and teasing in which she rubbed me through my pajamas and would come closer and closer to taking my pajamas off but wouldn't. Finally she went in and I started making a lot of news. She stroked it and bit my neck and I exploded in orgasm unlike ever before. It was the hottest thing ever, being teased for hours and then finally releasing. I fell asleep literally within the next 5 minutes.

I woke up and she was still there. I left her in bed while I ate breakfast. I went back into bed with her which was real cute. My cell phone rang and I took it outside. I found out we would be shooting a scene today for my film class. I let her know what the call was about, just to chit-chat. She then got out of bed and headed for the bathroom. She started brushing her teeth and I joined her and brushed mine. This time it wasn't as awkward as the time in her dorm when we stood in silence side by side. It felt natural.

She got dressed and I walked her to her car. We made plans for the next day. She's great. I ordered a memory foam mattress from overstock.com today because she said the air mattress wasn't that comfortable and she likes memory foam.

Discuss...
 

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lol you bought a new mattress cos this girl said she dont like air mattresses?

but yea sounds good sex is the natural next step
 

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Yea I slept at her dorm last night and got the handjob again. It's one of those situations where she likes me so much that she wants to wait before she has sex with me. She also said to me "you probably get any girl you want. I want to make you wait so you appreciate it more."

She's really smart.
 

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Cool story, bro!

Having you wait for sex? Sounds like a woman who has more control over YOU than you do HER. This makes you comfortable, letting the woman lead. Very strange, but maybe it'll work out for you. These cases are rare.
 

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hmm, this interests me because I've got a girl that told me there won't be sex on the first few dates. We talked about sex tonight and she implied that sex within the first few weeks was early. Mind you that doesn't mean I won't try, but I won't give up if she turns me down a few times (I think this is what she wants anyway).
 

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Kal0051 said:
hmm, this interests me because I've got a girl that told me there won't be sex on the first few dates. We talked about sex tonight and she implied that sex within the first few weeks was early. Mind you that doesn't mean I won't try, but I won't give up if she turns me down a few times (I think this is what she wants anyway).
I don't believe that for a second. The fact that she mentioned sex AT ALL means that she wants it. Though only an assertive male will actually get it from her...hint...hint

to the OP -- Good story, most of my stories involve the girl coming to my house and saying something completely obvious like "I like your bed" and then you can figure out the rest of the story.
 

Kal0051

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Duffdog said:
I don't believe that for a second. The fact that she mentioned sex AT ALL means that she wants it. Though only an assertive male will actually get it from her...hint...hint
oh I'm sure she wants it. She probably just wants to make sure I'm not just after her for sex (apparently she had bad experiences with this).
 

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kraytkiller said:
34 and still insecure about homosexuality. Impressive.
I wouldn't say he's insecure, more along the lines of he's not a wussbag.

Any guy that grinds with another dude is a wuss.

Anyway, grats on the handjob? Sounds like you got a nice h0 waiting to get fvcked and you're not man enough to get on with it already. Hope you don't care that she's taking her sweet ass time with you while other dudes are giving her the pipe.
 

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You had a good time. There's absolutely no denying that. Good job man. But don't be so quick to feel "AHA, FINALLY, A quality girl!!"... I hardly doubt that.

No disrespect to your choices man, but late at night, a girl from UK, in a loud club in long island, goes home with you without testing you that much, I would suggest you to be in control of your emotions.

And above all, I need you as a wing you dumbazz! Don't get engaged! :kick: jk
 

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kraytkiller said:
34 and still insecure about homosexuality. Impressive.

Yah. Because never in my life have I seen a dude grind on another dude unless they were gay. I have never seen a straight man in a straight club grind on another dude. That aint the norm where I'm from. I challenge you to go out and do that the next time you go out.

fukking shaming tactics from a lame. shame on you for even coming at me like that.

No matter what else the op wrote, this part is a problem he needs to get sorted out asap. you don't grind on dudes, end of.
 
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