"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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FR: The Four Brothers

TheNewGuy

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12:20PM I get a call from this girl. HB9, blue eyes, blonde hair, great ass I'd say 5'4" 115lbs. "Whatcha doing" she asks. I'm working so I tell her I'll call her back when I get out.
1:30 I get out, call her and ask her what she wanted. "Come over" she says. I tell her I'll call her after I get out of the shower.
2:00 Out of the shower.
Between 2:15 and 3 we play phone tag... god I hate the Sprint voicemail lady.
3:15 I head over her house. I get there and head to her basement. We have some smalltalk about exams and stuff coming up. I make fun of her and tell her how her dog loves me so much more than her.
3:35 She puts in The Four Brothers, I hear its a great movie.
3:40 Shes at the corner of the couch (its one of those right angle ones) and I'm at one end. I grab her and pull her on top of me. "You're a decent cuddler" I tell her.
3:50 Remembering her cheerleading practice in a little bit, she gets up and changes into shorts. Short shorts. Dayummm. We go back to the couch.

During all this I'm rubbing her, moving back and forth between her ass, thighs and back.. I forget where I read it but somewhere on here says that if you have your hands on a girl and they aren't moving, its bad. Always keep your hands moving.

4:10 We start making out. From this point on its on/off first/second base.
4:30ish
We're making out.
Her: I'm such a tease.
Me: Oh yeah?
-I pull back and just look at her-
Her: Yeah you want to try and tease me?
-She goes to the opposite side of the couch-
Me: Aww well thats no fun huh.
-I grab her, pull her back and we go back to our prior engagements-


I had to leave at 5:00, but we made plans for later on in the week.
Now I need to figure out if I should tell her I've never been past second before...

EDIT: Forgot to mention, but at one point during her whole "I'm a tease" act she was looking through her phone. I grabbed it, threw it across the room and we went back to making out :)
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BluEyes

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Never say you're inexperienced.

I did that with my first girl last year, in an AFC moment, and lost her that week. Never talk about the girls(or lack thereof) you've been with unless they ask. The second girl I ever popped thought I was a player, even though I'd only had sex twice before that. If you say that you're holding your Vcard, that gives her the power in the relationship, knowing that you "need" her. If she believes, whether truthful or not, that you have other girls in your life, then you keep the power. With girls, power = poon.
 

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DONT TELL HER YOU HAVE NEVER BEEN PASSED 2nd base. Instead. go out and buy some condoms, learn how to put them on if you dont know how. Then, when youre with her and youve escalated it, start by taking off her shirt while you are making out, then help her take off yours. Then keep progressing things and once youre naked bust out your condoms and put one on! The rest is up to you.
 

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I was kind of in the same boat as you about two months. What happened for me was we just kind of went with the flow. The first time we got together, we got to 3rd and she said I did an amazing job. I made her *** like 4 times. It was my first time but I research a lot of **** when I'm bored so I pretty much already knew what to do. I recommend you read into how to finger/eat out a girl :].
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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