"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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FR: Talked to this girl at lunch.

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So I was at lunch today and I talked to a couple girls, but only one set was really worth it. I talked to this one girl who seemed interested, but when I tried to tickle her she left. Now the important set went like this:

I was talking to this other girl then Lindsey says "Mike" and we talk.
Girl: I'm going to cheer for you at the game.
Me: Yeah, but I could hardly hear you last time.
[And I put my arm around her]

And we talk yeah.. that stuff...

Me: But you tried, that deserves a hug.

[I hug her and she hugs me]

[I pull away and say]
Me: But I gotta go now.
Getting better man.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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If you made the first hug a good hug that she'll remember, she'll want more hugs, and this is where you should pull away.
Other than that I really don't get what you're trying to share with us lol
 
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