"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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FR: Talked to this girl at lunch.

ElStud

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DJ Discussion topic wasn't getting any replies so...

So I was at lunch today and I talked to a couple girls, but only one set was really worth it. I talked to this one girl who seemed interested, but when I tried to tickle her she left. Now the important set went like this:

I was talking to this other girl then Lindsey says "Mike" and we talk.
Girl: I'm going to cheer for you at the game.
Me: Yeah, but I could hardly hear you last time.
[And I put my arm around her]

And we talk yeah.. that stuff...

Me: But you tried, that deserves a hug.

[I hug her and she hugs me]

[I pull away and say]
Me: But I gotta go now.
Getting better man.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

Grand Wizzard Alamar

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If you made the first hug a good hug that she'll remember, she'll want more hugs, and this is where you should pull away.
Other than that I really don't get what you're trying to share with us lol
 
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