“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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FR: Talked to this girl and got her number.

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So I went up to this girl and just started singing "I'm the craziest dude alive!" or something and continue singing. Then I asked, "So honestly, on a scale of 1 to 10 how crazy did you think I was when I came up here?" and she's "Well, I think a 9" and that sort of opens the convo. Now I can't remember much of the small talk or even if there was small talk, but most of the time I just plowed. And how did I plow? I basically started talking about how I'm Crazy Man and how she's Crazy Girl and just keep making up these crazy stories about how we would fight crime and sh*t.

But yeah, that's mostly all I can remember from that particular interaction. After all, it was long and it WASN'T the only approach I did today, so ofcourse I'm not gonna remember every detail. But at the end I went something like "Well, you're a cool girl, I'm gonna call you, after all Crazy Man and Crazy Girl need to keep in touch" and she's all cool with it. So I tell her to dail the number in my phone, so I could store it. Then I called her phone so she had my number. Shortly after that I think I ejected.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Elstud this is a very sketchy FR. You number closed and congratulations, but there's really nothing here worth posting about other than the one line about you calling yourself "crazy guy" and her "crazy girl". It's just odd that you could be sober and not remember how the conversation went, what she said and how she acted and what you said to her. It lacks any useful details and sounds very robotic and uncalibrated.
 

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ElStud said:
So I went up to this girl and just started singing "I'm the craziest dude alive!" or something and continue singing. Then I asked, "So honestly, on a scale of 1 to 10 how crazy did you think I was when I came up here?" and she's "Well, I think a 9" and that sort of opens the convo. Now I can't remember much of the small talk or even if there was small talk, but most of the time I just plowed. And how did I plow? I basically started talking about how I'm Crazy Man and how she's Crazy Girl and just keep making up these crazy stories about how we would fight crime and sh*t.

But yeah, that's mostly all I can remember from that particular interaction. After all, it was long and it WASN'T the only approach I did today, so ofcourse I'm not gonna remember every detail. But at the end I went something like "Well, you're a cool girl, I'm gonna call you, after all Crazy Man and Crazy Girl need to keep in touch" and she's all cool with it. So I tell her to dail the number in my phone, so I could store it. Then I called her phone so she had my number. Shortly after that I think I ejected.
:up: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: rofl
 

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ketostix said:
Elstud this is a very sketchy FR. You number closed and congratulations, but there's really nothing here worth posting about other than the one line about you calling yourself "crazy guy" and her "crazy girl". It's just odd that you could be sober and not remember how the conversation went, what she said and how she acted and what you said to her. It lacks any useful details and sounds very robotic and uncalibrated.
Well you know I could care less what you think cause I got the number in my phone right now and ofcourse, I was there. Plus I made that approach HOURS ago and it also wasn't the last approach I made. So ofcourse I aint gonna be able to post every freaking detail.

Do you honestly that's all I said? No, like I said I plowed off of that. Which basically means that I just expanded more and more on it. I basically just talked about me being crazy guy and her being crazy girl and about how we would fight crime and stuff. I also think I might've sang a theme song for us, haha. But yeah, like I said, with the circumstances you can't expect me to remember every detail of the approach.

I think I might've also talked about the football game and stuff and told her how I was in band, but I'm not even sure if THAT happened, cause I talk about that stuff with every girl.

But in the end, you're an overall idiot for thinking I'd even have the time to make a f*cking fake FR. An idiot because if I was gonna make a fake FR I might as well make it of me f*cking the girl.
 

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Well IMO, I think that "crazy girl" stuff was very childish. I mean, I wouldnt even do that in highschool, and your in college talking about fighting crime?

Cmon man...:down:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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HandyAndy said:
Well IMO, I think that "crazy girl" stuff was very childish. I mean, I wouldnt even do that in highschool, and your in college talking about fighting crime?

Cmon man...:down:
See thing is... is you don't understand the fact that words don't mean a damn thing. The girl obviously didn't see it as childish, so stop hating. And in the end, I got the number, so I could really care less what anyone has to say about it cause I could call this girl anytime.

Don't believe words don't mean sh*t? I've gone up to a set and basically told them I was making a musical and I was going to cast them and got interest. And I basically just continued the set telling the girls the plot of the musical and they were loving the hell out of it. Point is, you could f*cking talk about Pokemon to a girl and if you had confidence, you could get interest.
 

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ElStud said:
Well you know I could care less what you think cause I got the number in my phone right now and ofcourse, I was there. Plus I made that approach HOURS ago and it also wasn't the last approach I made. So ofcourse I aint gonna be able to post every freaking detail.

Do you honestly that's all I said? No, like I said I plowed off of that. Which basically means that I just expanded more and more on it. I basically just talked about me being crazy guy and her being crazy girl and about how we would fight crime and stuff. I also think I might've sang a theme song for us, haha. But yeah, like I said, with the circumstances you can't expect me to remember every detail of the approach.

I think I might've also talked about the football game and stuff and told her how I was in band, but I'm not even sure if THAT happened, cause I talk about that stuff with every girl.

But in the end, you're an overall idiot for thinking I'd even have the time to make a f*cking fake FR. An idiot because if I was gonna make a fake FR I might as well make it of me f*cking the girl.
Na, then we would all be 100% sure you are full of sh**.
 

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ElStud said:
Well you know I could care less what you think cause I got the number in my phone right now and ofcourse, I was there. Plus I made that approach HOURS ago and it also wasn't the last approach I made. So ofcourse I aint gonna be able to post every freaking detail.

Do you honestly that's all I said? No, like I said I plowed off of that. Which basically means that I just expanded more and more on it. I basically just talked about me being crazy guy and her being crazy girl and about how we would fight crime and stuff. I also think I might've sang a theme song for us, haha. But yeah, like I said, with the circumstances you can't expect me to remember every detail of the approach.

I think I might've also talked about the football game and stuff and told her how I was in band, but I'm not even sure if THAT happened, cause I talk about that stuff with every girl.

But in the end, you're an overall idiot for thinking I'd even have the time to make a f*cking fake FR. An idiot because if I was gonna make a fake FR I might as well make it of me f*cking the girl.
Dude there is something seriously wrong with you. When did I say you made the FR up? I said the FR didn't contain anything worthy of being posted or really anything to discuss. Get mad all you want but an average person could approach girls totally hammered a night ago and recall the encounter clearer than this FR. You got a number that you probably won't call or go anywhere with it. Anyway, a person gives you advice and it's obvious you don't consider any of it and then you respond with off-the-wall attacks. You're so impersonal and irrational in your response that now I'm seeing why so many people dog you on here.
 

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At least he was honest with the girl, letting her know right off the bat he has some mental problems.
 

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ElStud said:
you don't understand the fact that words don't mean a damn thing.
Didnt I tell you before not to act like you know me? You b1tch about how people shouldnt judge you, yet here you are saying "you" as if you know me.

And I do understand the fact that words dont mean a thing.

Hypocrite.

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Stop hating.
Theres nothing to hate about lol...


ElStud said:
And in the end, I got the number
Big deal, you get a bunch of numbers and do nothing with them...

ElStud said:
so I could really care less what anyone has to say about it
Then why did you post it? If you dont care about what we have to say then why do you post your crappy "field reports" in the fist place?

cause I could call this girl anytime.
HAH! Highly doubt this....
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I agree that with some girls you could say some utterly ridiculous things, i've tried it and if you do it confidently, and with a great deal of sarcasm, it works... sometimes. And only if you already have rapport with her.

Unless she's completely smitten with you, and i mean she becomes the AFC lapping at YOUR feet, its a sure fire way to end up with restraining orders and your nuts buried foot deep inside your stomach.

call her and see where it goes, post what happens.
 

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I don't know why you keep bringing this FRs up and then don't expect to be judged.

And btw...
ElStud said:
I could call this girl anytime.
Unless she works for a hot line, this is highly unlikely.
 

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ElStud said:
So I went up to this girl and just started singing "I'm the craziest dude alive!" or something and continue singing. Then I asked, "So honestly, on a scale of 1 to 10 how crazy did you think I was when I came up here?" and she's "Well, I think a 9" and that sort of opens the convo. Now I can't remember much of the small talk or even if there was small talk, but most of the time I just plowed. And how did I plow? I basically started talking about how I'm Crazy Man and how she's Crazy Girl and just keep making up these crazy stories about how we would fight crime and sh*t.

But yeah, that's mostly all I can remember from that particular interaction. After all, it was long and it WASN'T the only approach I did today, so ofcourse I'm not gonna remember every detail. But at the end I went something like "Well, you're a cool girl, I'm gonna call you, after all Crazy Man and Crazy Girl need to keep in touch" and she's all cool with it. So I tell her to dail the number in my phone, so I could store it. Then I called her phone so she had my number. Shortly after that I think I ejected.
Well, I will avoid being rude here. Congrats on the close. Now, call that number. Be cool, calm, and create a great opportunity for a date, without making her feel like its a date.

You need to experience more day 2s. That is what actually determines if you get or lose a girl. That is when you apply your kino escalation and build a solid connection, intimacy, and sexual tension with her.

If you really wanna be good, I would suggest you to stop trying to get validation for every #close, instead eliminate your weaknesses by working on them, and get some girlfriends.
 

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Well, I will avoid being rude here. Congrats on the close. Now, call that number. Be cool, calm, and create a great opportunity for a date, without making her feel like its a date.

You need to experience more day 2s. That is what actually determines if you get or lose a girl. That is when you apply your kino escalation and build a solid connection, intimacy, and sexual tension with her.

If you really wanna be good, I would suggest you to stop trying to get validation for every #close, instead eliminate your weaknesses by working on them, and get some girlfriends.
Anyway, skipping the bullsh*t post before yours, that's exactly what I'm gonna do man, I'm gonna call the number(And lol, your post is the only one that's probably NOT rude). Amazing how many people hate when they see you getting success. I can see it now hah! I eventually post a lay report and you still got guys like HandyAndy and Aragon going "lol she was creeped out man even though she gave you a bl*wjob" or "She was only sucking your d*ck because she was desperate". Haha, some people never stop hating. That's why these people are ignored.

I generally don't care about that "call her 3 days after you get the number". Dude it's ONE girl, if I call and it doesn't go well, it doesn't matter. But I'd rather know atleast the day after I've gotten the girls number if she's going to flake or not. Goes great, great, doesn't go so great, oh well.

And TheBaconator, stop hating. Haha, this is what I mean by I could post a lay report and still get haters. I mean what's the point in hating? Jealously? GF Breaking up with you? I don't know.

Dude there is something seriously wrong with you. When did I say you made the FR up? I said the FR didn't contain anything worthy of being posted or really anything to discuss. Get mad all you want but an average person could approach girls totally hammered a night ago and recall the encounter clearer than this FR. You got a number that you probably won't call or go anywhere with it. Anyway, a person gives you advice and it's obvious you don't consider any of it and then you respond with off-the-wall attacks. You're so impersonal and irrational in your response that now I'm seeing why so many people dog you on here.
I'll say it once more, I'm not going to remember an FR clearly HOURS after it happened, especially if the girl wasn't anything special. Interaction is interaction. Then you go on to make stupid assumptions and the rest of the post just isn't even worth reading. And you have to get out of the thought process that I actually post these FR's to help anyone on the forum because that's not true. I post these FR's in order to post my social interactions with women and overall, just for the sake of posting FR's.
 
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From the last 4 or 5 threads you started,you no longer seem to have a problem getting girls' numbers. Out of all of these recent numbers that you have gotten,how many of them have turned into dates so far?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Igetit! said:
From the last 4 or 5 threads you started,you no longer seem to have a problem getting girls' numbers. Out of all of these recent numbers that you have gotten,how many of them have turned into dates so far?
zero
 

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Anyway, skipping the bullsh*t post before yours, that's exactly what I'm gonna do man, I'm gonna call the number(And lol, your post is the only one that's probably NOT rude). Amazing how many people hate when they see you getting success. I can see it now hah! I eventually post a lay report and you still got guys like HandyAndy and Aragon going "lol she was creeped out man even though she gave you a bl*wjob" or "She was only sucking your d*ck because she was desperate". Haha, some people never stop hating. That's why these people are ignored.

I generally don't care about that "call her 3 days after you get the number". Dude it's ONE girl, if I call and it doesn't go well, it doesn't matter. But I'd rather know atleast the day after I've gotten the girls number if she's going to flake or not. Goes great, great, doesn't go so great, oh well.

What's funny though is Aragon preaches maturity in his sig, then post that sh*t. Hating on guys getting success isn't mature at all, infact it's damn childish.

haha I didn't see that before. Dude the day you get a lay report is the day I bang the president's daughter.

yeah and about the FR. I mean that just seemed really really weird. She'll flake 100% guaranteed. Don't even bother calling. There's a difference between being different (non-AFC) and being creepy.
 

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ElStud said:
Anyway, skipping the bullsh*t post before yours, that's exactly what I'm gonna do man, I'm gonna call the number(And lol, your post is the only one that's probably NOT rude). Amazing how many people hate when they see you getting success. I can see it now hah! I eventually post a lay report and you still got guys like HandyAndy and Aragon going "lol she was creeped out man even though she gave you a bl*wjob" or "She was only sucking your d*ck because she was desperate". Haha, some people never stop hating. That's why these people are ignored.

I generally don't care about that "call her 3 days after you get the number". Dude it's ONE girl, if I call and it doesn't go well, it doesn't matter. But I'd rather know atleast the day after I've gotten the girls number if she's going to flake or not. Goes great, great, doesn't go so great, oh well.

What's funny though is Aragon preaches maturity in his sig, then post that sh*t. Hating on guys getting success isn't mature at all, infact it's damn childish.
I don't know you as a person. So I am just being unbiased, and trying to give legit advice from my knowledge and experiences.

That being said, I also think the only reason these guys hate you is because you are not progressing. And you are stuck on opening or getting numbers. That's understandable but you should take some advice from these guys, because they are trying to tell you that you are doing something wrong. That is why girls flake on you, which is why you are not getting dates.

I'd suggest posting complete transactions on your #closes, so that we will tell you exactly what you need to do differently, because it just perplexes me to know that your number closes are going down the drain.
 

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I don't know you as a person. So I am just being unbiased, and trying to give legit advice from my knowledge and experiences.

That being said, I also think the only reason these guys hate you is because you are not progressing. And you are stuck on opening or getting numbers. That's understandable but you should take some advice from these guys, because they are trying to tell you that you are doing something wrong. That is why girls flake on you, which is why you are not getting dates.

I'd suggest posting complete transactions on your #closes, so that we will tell you exactly what you need to do differently, because it just perplexes me to know that your number closes are going down the drain.
The thing is, I don't do this for them and they can hate, doesn't really phase me. First things first, hating is not advice. Second things second, look at most of these guys' threads and you'll be wondering, they're criticizing ME on not getting a kiss close? But where's any proof of their K-Close? Exactly. And when I get advice that I know doesn't sound like total bullsh*t, trust me, I take it.

And complete transactions? Sorry, can't do that, unless you want me to bring like some freaking tape recorder into field. And even with the tape recorder you're basically gonna hear the same sh*t that I said here. Besides, you cannot give advice completely on words. Infact words, like I said before, mean zilch. It's all about the subcommunication, the body language and all that stuff going on in field that you can't see from words.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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