"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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FR: Swing Baby Swing

comic_relief

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As you probably know that I just got out of a year and month relationship with a girl.

I met D for the first time during my first swing dance club meeting. She was an officer and I was just coming into the club. So, we just joke around a bit and I don't really know much about her.

We meet up the next day during lunch and I am talking with a friend of hers about different travelling destination. She comes up and we start talking about swing club. I tell her that I cannot wait to begin swing dance.

She says, "Lets start tomorrow."
Me: "Alright, how about you give me your number."
Her: *writes down the number on a paper knapkin for me*
Me: "Cool" *continues to talk with Kim and leaves with her*

The Next Day:

I meet up with her outside my dorm. We get back to her place and we start to dance. I can tell that she is digging me because she dresses in an outfit that shows a lot of cleavage (nothing wrong with that). I dance with her. I do nothing except for talk with her and dance. She even shows me inside of her room for some unknown reason (NOTE: I am still in a relationship with my now ex).

A couple days later:
I break up with my then girlfriend to go try to get D.

A week later:
We both have time to hang out again. I bring over "take the lead" and we start watching it. She is dressed even more seductively than before. We begin to make out and have fun.

Today:
We go out to eat. I paid for the pizza and she paid for the drinks.

We then go back to her place and begin to watch the movie, "The creepshow" and make out.

Me: *tickles her side*
Her: "Hey don't do that. I am ticklish almost everywhere but a few places."
Me: "Really? Can I guess where?"
Her: "Sure?!?"
Me: "I bet this area is very ticklish." *sticks pointer figure on her crotch*
Her: "You don't need to know that. You won't be able to get there."
Me: *gives her a 'oh yeah right' face*
Her: "Yeah, I'm a good girl. There is still a few of us left."
Me: "I don't believe it. I heard the one girl say that and she just turned out to be a sexual freak."
Her: "Not me."
Me: "For some reason I don't believe it."
Her: "Why not?"
Me: "Prove it. I only date bad girls and I know what you are"
Her: *soft laugh*

I then ended up grabbing her @$$. damn I am good. :p

I get a ride back to my dorm from her and then we leave again.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Anomalous

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So you didn't fvck her?

O well, still some solid game in there champ.:up:

Remember David X says, "Make the hoe say no."


Keep at it, persistence is key.

You are welcome..
 
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