"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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FR: Sunday Night Clubbing

Maestro Monk

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So it's Sunday night, and and my wing and I decide to hit up one of the better clubs in my city.
It took nearly an hour to get goin b/c of a few polite rejections, but after my first dance, it was non-stop from there pretty much the rest of the night.
I approached pair of cute Asians standing around not really dancing. Said something lame like "looks like you could use a dance partner there", threw out my arm, and next thing I know the one has spun around and is grinding against me with good enthusiasm. After about 10 mins, I spin her around, and her purse swings out, knocking over 2 nearby bear bottles. She looked real embarrassed and backed off like she had enough after that, and wouldn't keep dancing after I tried pulling her back..whatever, next.
After that, approached random girls and got single song dances for the rest of the night..this is probably because my dancing is not up to par (yet).
About an hour later, I see the pair that I danced with earlier on. I honestly don't really remember how it happened, but I remember just looking at the friend and next thing I know she is hugging me and we're dancing.
After about 15 mins we were 'dancing' like mad (more like dry sex), and at a couple points I picked her up off her feet with her legs around my stomach..seriously hot stuff :)
After about 40 mins of grindin', my legs were beginning to tire out, so I take her hand and walk her over to the couch area. She sits on my lap and I tease her and we're both doing heavy kino. At this point, I wanted to talk, but was hesitant because of the loud music. So she asks me some small fluff talk, like my name, age, etc. 15 minutes later we're back on the dancefloor and going some more. I decide to get her number now before I forget, so I motion her to follow me off the dancefloor, where I smoothly whip out the phone and hand it to her.
Next thing I know, she hands it back without looking at me or putting in her number, and walks out of the club with her friend who appeared out of nowhere! She told me how much of a great time she was having, so this was totally unexpected. :(
Walking out of the club empty handed half hour later, I notice HB Asian lounging in a store front with some huge 6'6 basketball player and her friend nearby chatting on her phone..by this point I am quite vexed, so I don't make eye contact at her as I walk by. After that, it was straight street sarging, and we had fun chattin up semi-intoxicated hotties outside the clubs for the next little while..no # closes though.

Things to keep in mind for next time:

One thing I realized was that once I had broken the ice and danced with the first girl, the rest come easily (just like sarging).
Something I need to improve is my club communication..I very frequently find myself struggling to speak over top of the loud music. I tried whispering in their ears, but it was so loud that I often had to resort to yelling, after they asked me my name.
Should have made out with HB Asian, hopefully sealing the deal, before I went for a number close..
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Maestro Monk

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Bump
Alright, myself and 3 others posted 3 field reports and there are no replies within 24 hours, yet over 10 for a thread about things like a "DJ's schedule"..
*Sigh* This forum really is beginning to worry me.
Let's hear some constructive criticism and suggestions for better success at clubs.
 

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Well-said. Not sure what would make for good conversation topics in a club environment, besides the obvious comments on the place itself.

Out of curiousty..when you guys game in clubs, do you open with a verbal cue, or do you go with the flow and just begin dancing with the chick?
 

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While we're on the subject...

For any of the English guys here, have you ever tried pulling an Asian girl in a club or elsewhere?
Its hard as hell, I mean they all prefer the Asian lads, you know the 'gangsta' wannabes.
Ive never pulled one although I only tried a few times....any of you lot managed it
 

I_Only_Live_Once

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Originally posted by Maestro Monk
Alright, myself and 3 others posted 3 field reports and there are no replies within 24 hours, yet over 10 for a thread about things like a "DJ's schedule"..
*Sigh* This forum really is beginning to worry me.
This website is like this. Field reports are not viewed as important, instead people rather talk about theory. I still don't understand why there isn't a field report section.

Anyway, as for the # close, you should talk to the girl a bit more before closing.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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