"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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FR: Solomon The Social Proof Master

Solomon

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The Definition of Social Proof:cool:

Social proof, also known as informational social influence, is a psychological phenomenon that occurs in ambiguous social situations when people are unable to determine the appropriate mode of behavior. Making the assumption that surrounding people possess more knowledge about the situation, they will deem the behavior of others as appropriate or better informed.


Here weee goooooooo

http://en.sevenload.com/videos/0Ki3l7w-FR-10-26-08

Pics from the field:


^^us doing the pose skit, lol @ The Samuel Jackson guy in the back.


^^Mark Madsen bballer for The Twolves, SeanJohn in the back


^^all of us just having a blast!!


A groupie who couldn't believe she met me in person, lool


^^4 shots, 4 real dudes, 4 show, 4'4's (get it?)


^^Jason Lee out front, Me Justin and Sean John


"oh you are model? I model too!"


^^her body was just one word BA-NA-NAS! (too bad I aint got a pic of it)


^^Solo and his ladies (Sarah and her friend "C")


"are we gonna kiss? or I don't know, are you, I mean, ok, wow, I'm drunk now"

Some Clarification


1. I left my buddies at the other Venue because I needed some air, I was getting bent

2. I actually gave both Sara and C my number, did the text spiel at the end but they ain't do it. (blah!)

3. No disrespect El-stud but mmh, Clark Kent>>>>>>>Pickashu


In closing

Happy Thanksgiving guys!!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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nice. very nice.

I like how you got some good looking buddies to roll with you. Try to show some leader of men attitude with your boys. Is that girl in the 1st group photo your pivot or something?

Night game can often lead to fool's mate, you might kiss close a girl and think you got her, but she won't return your calls. I'd suggest you don't use alcohol on your sarging nights. You need to be smarter and more alert than anybody else in your set. Try some day game if you want some non-flaky girls and good day 2s.

Keep it up.
 

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daygameguy said:
nice. very nice.

I like how you got some good looking buddies to roll with you. Try to show some leader of men attitude with your boys. Is that girl in the 1st group photo your pivot or something?

Night game can often lead to fool's mate, you might kiss close a girl and think you got her, but she won't return your calls. I'd suggest you don't use alcohol on your sarging nights. You need to be smarter and more alert than anybody else in your set. Try some day game if you want some non-flaky girls and good day 2s.

Keep it up.

Man you are telling the truth. You could have a girl do some crazy ****, rub her ass, her give ya an HJ and thats that, lol.

The girl? she is actually one of my buddies buddy girlfriend, she was cool but naw I wasn't using her as a pivot, she played more towards her man

I wish I could do day game, but I work tons of hours that when I do get off I sleep as much as I can...

The alcohol deal usually I keep it to a 2 drink limit, yesterday it was a bit more because I was there mostly to enjoy the ambiance with my buddies.....

Thanks again man.
 

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Nice stuff man, as long as it all comes naturally, you'll see more awesome stuff than what you see from overthinkers.

i can't agree with not using Negs though. simply because i've met (and subsequently boned) some catty princess *****es and a subtle neg dropped naturally into the conversation (something like "Thats such a hot looking skirt, i see it all the time and love it!") takes them down a peg and puts them into perspective.

Some guys think negs are used to equalize the playing field, as in you bring said chick to your level. I think it's more about changing their perspective, they only THINK they're above you and with a comment like that they are forced to see things as they really are.

Honestly i rarely neg, its one of the few things i'll actively think about, and i'll only ever neg a b1tch who thinks they're hot stuff (i see tons of them unfortunately) Though as you get older it's less prevalent as maturity increases the ability to see the world realistically.

I'm fully supportive of just being yourself and having fun. That's the whole point!

Remember, the more it comes from your heart instead of your brain, the better time and success you'll have.
 

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Aragon034 said:
Nice stuff man, as long as it all comes naturally, you'll see more awesome stuff than what you see from overthinkers.

i can't agree with not using Negs though. simply because i've met (and subsequently boned) some catty princess *****es and a subtle neg dropped naturally into the conversation (something like "Thats such a hot looking skirt, i see it all the time and love it!") takes them down a peg and puts them into perspective.

Some guys think negs are used to equalize the playing field, as in you bring said chick to your level. I think it's more about changing their perspective, they only THINK they're above you and with a comment like that they are forced to see things as they really are.

Honestly i rarely neg, its one of the few things i'll actively think about, and i'll only ever neg a b1tch who thinks they're hot stuff (i see tons of them unfortunately) Though as you get older it's less prevalent as maturity increases the ability to see the world realistically.

I'm fully supportive of just being yourself and having fun. That's the whole point!

Remember, the more it comes from your heart instead of your brain, the better time and success you'll have.
What you call "negging" I call "teasing" and actually if you peeped my vid cough cough. I was negging the hell out of the chick, who was giving me **** test and what not. I think I even smacked her ass at one point lol
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Nice pics man. Can't watch the video while I'm at work though. The computer with speakers wont connect to the net for some reason.

I took your idea and did a video field report too. You're gonna have to check it out as soon as I get it on my computer.
 

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Solomon said:
What you call "negging" I call "teasing" and actually if you peeped my vid cough cough. I was negging the hell out of the chick, who was giving me **** test and what not. I think I even smacked her ass at one point lol
lol i did peep your video. though i was busy studying at the same time. I'll remember to pay better attention next time. :p
 
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