FR: Solo Game - Off Night... arghhh

[Randallpink83]

I didn't leave my house til about 11:00... didn't get to the club til after midnight.

My friend who wanted to go bailed on me last minute... But that doesn't matter to me, solo game is a necessary element to develop.
So I goto this club that is HUGE!! It really is big, like 3-4 dance rooms and probably 10 different bar areas. Its crazy.

So I get there... I'm all alone and totally stone cold sober. First I walk the whole venue and just checked it out. There really weren't many hot girls... It was weird, this huge place FULL of people and it was all very outcast dirty crowd... I kind of set me off... but I kept trying to tell myself "Dude don't make up excuses to get out of this... this is practice if anything.. Game on fvcker!"

So I go to the main hip-hop room and start looking for sets. I'm starting to wear my slightly cheesy smile, that says, I'm coming!!! It makes me feel INTO it when I cheese smile at nothing.

I see some girls that were kinda decent... but seriously they werent up to my standards... Practice practice I kept yelling at myself... They walked past me and I hesitated. WTF?.... "I" hesitated?... dont puss out, you're walking dangerous ground right now bro... lol. My inner dialouge was going off. I knew I was in trouble, I was too much in my head... What was going on???

Fvck it. I knew if I didnt do something Fast I was gonna crumble.. A girl with big fun bags and cute hair braid walking by.. I jump up towards her. "Heyyy Who are you?" she gives me a confussed look and moves off to a HUGE dude.

Then i see to my right a cute girl texting on her phone... I walk up and nudge her "Hey you don't have to text me, I'm right here!"... normally this opener will bust open great for me. She wouldnt even look up at me and kinda turned her shoulder from me.... wtf, I wont quit girl, I'm the randall pink, I come from the elite clubs!!!! I keep plowing "Whatever I know you hear me, who the Hell are you" ... she straight up ignored me... this was a plain jane girl! cute for this club.. but nothing compared to what I'm normally appraoching... what the hell is going on... all these ugs are playing harder to get then 9s and 10s? is this normal?

Two girls walking through this hallway area that I was walking through, I step in front of them and stop them "Hallway security! Tell me your names right now!" they just laugh and sidestepped to get around me. whatever that was to be expected.

Then I notice another 2 set of decent looking girls watching everyone dancing so I approach and tap them on the shoulder, playing it very normal with this one "Hey guys! hows your night going?"... they just walked away...

I seriously threw my hands up... I'm great with rejection, but I knew something was wrong tonight. Sober, Alone, something with my attitude.

Then a girl walks by me, texting... I was already feeling fvcked up with the vibe.. "Hey you cant text and walk through a crowded room, thats dangerous".. she just barely acknowledges me. So then I practically yell at her friend, "She is being dangerous!!! Are you going to let her be like that"... the girl just looks at me like im some painting on the wall and keeps walking by...

....NOT A SINGLE GIRL HAS SO MUCH AS MUTTERED A WORD TO ME THUS FAR...

So I'm just like, fvck this place.. seriously, all these people are dirty, ugly, low class (and they really were... I'm not trying to validate my off night) so there were very few girls there tonight that I would even felt proud of pulling.

Then I went to a more laid back lounge area. I'm not drinking anything but one of the waitresses comes to serve me. and WOW! Hot!... yes this is what I'm used to. And I could tell she was into me! Everything about her was banging, great body, great face... mmmm I was soaking her up. We started chatting alittle bit, but I was already feeling out of sorts, I'm not sure if I should have pushed for her.. what did I have to lose I guess? But I didnt close her or anything, but out of all the people there, my only good interaction was with one of the hottest working girls...

I finally just leave. I wave goodbye to the place forever. Plus it was getting dangerous... Its been almost 2 weeks since I had sex last, and all those nasty chunky girls with huge tits busting out there low cut tops was starting to turn me on and I didn't even want to go there. haha.

....Another thing... the guys there were ****s.. Guys were going out of there way to bump people with their shoulders. Like this huge macho challange **** was going down... I even started talking to these two dudes about something, I thought it would be cool, but one of the guys squared off to me and started i asking why IO thought it was cool to just talk to them.... hmmm ok, I just walked off.
Yeah I was driving home and kept telling myself.. you pussed out man... you wasted a saturday night.. but right now remmbering everything.. nah I didnt puss out, it was just an off night. I could of hit it harder I suppose.

Just thought I would share because these off nights will happen. And I will be back at it again Very soon.. probably some day game this early week, or maybe go out Wednesday.

 

[ketostix]

Yeah off nights happen. I go out alone all the time. I went out Sat.night alone. Sometimes you just aren't in a good state, sometimes you run into a lame crowd or end up at a lame club. Going to a club alone isn't easy, you have zero social proof and it's hard to get into state. Well you really had a bad night wow. It must've been rough, but props on doing the approaches.

I think it would've helped to have a drink or two, and to do a few warm up sets with UG's, but some of them just ignored you. That's pretty bad.

 

[Mad Manic]

Yeah off nights happen. I go out alone all the time. I went out Sat.night alone. Sometimes you just aren't in a good state, sometimes you run into a lame crowd or end up at a lame club. Going to a club alone isn't easy, you have zero social proof and it's hard to get into state. Well you really had a bad night wow. It must've been rough, but props on doing the approaches.

I think it would've helped to have a drink or two, and to do a few warm up sets with UG's, but some of them just ignored you. That's pretty bad.

Wow I find it easier, I can go where I like and approach whom I like. No idiots to mess up my sets or get me into a negative state. Saying that, having a cool guy/girl there as SP would be nice but unfortunately don't have that luxury too often.

 

[Ratisson]

haha, ya i had the same kinda **** happen the other night to me as well. Went to the club alone, sober as hell, and i dont know whether it was my state or the b1tches, but these girls were fvcking mean to me. B1tches everywhere im telling you.

I went on to the dance floor to grind some girls. I see a hb 9 and approach her on the D floor and immediately she starts moving away from me to hide behind her friends. I accepted the rejection and decided to move onto the next girl. So after this happens i try to move past her and her friends to find some more girls to dance with. I try to squeeze by their group and out of nowhere this bug fat cow, who weighed at least 350 lbs, manhandles me and throws me away from her crowd of friends. She must have thought i was still going after her HB 9 friend, but i was only trying to get through them to the next set. Fvcking fat cow, girls who are bigger than the refrigerator should not be allowed into clubs. She starts manhandling me but i fight back and push the cvnt off me. Stupid fatties, just cuz the arent able to get **** in them doesnt mean they should block their friends.

Then i see a 3 set standing at a little table with drinks. I approach in a friendly way and jokingly say "hey you girls wanna buy me a drink". The alpha girl of the group was a real fvcking b1tch about it. Giving me attitude and all, and i just play it cool. Then she's like "get the fvck out nof here these girls (her friends) dont want you". So i kindly eject and say to her that i was glad i realized she was a b1tch now rather than later.

I dont know why girls go to the club with attitudes. That b1tch doesnt realize that she's holding her friends back from meeting good guys. The moral of the story is: Clubs suck for meeting women. If you want to find a girlfriend start approaching in the day time where the hotties are more receptive to your approach and they are rarely seen with their b1tchy friends.

 

[Mad Manic]

because you would do exactly the same thing if you were them

Somehow I doubt we'd be constantly pushing away women if they were approaching us lol.

 

[Randallpink83]

lol i remmeber when i went clubbing by myself along time ago. lol quite similar to your experience, got rejected **** loads, and then blamed everyone/thing. try this next time, try to improve on the next set after failing. instead of direct approach, try the mystery method. in-direct approaches work like magic in the clubs. "hey guys, can i get your opinion on something?" lol but i doubt that will work in America after the show... but anyways yegh, next time instead of direct openers (hows it going) try indirect openers, and also say the opener over the shoulder, so it isnt threatening.

just remember girls can small your **** a mile off. even though you are being friendly the girls know that you want their pVssy. so dont blame them for being *****es, because you would do exactly the same thing if you were them

Yes the girl does always know you want her pvssy.... And I dont care... Because girls like sex, so if you are doing a good job, they will CHOOSE you and let you game them.

and yeah I should have switched over to some of my routine openers... But I just wanted to vibe. "Dont have to text" was the only one not spontaneous.


....I think the things that suck about an off night, is when it comes down to it, its your own fault... I could've hit it harder and I could've done and said the right things that would have made it a success report. But no regrets for the night. Take my lessons and move on.