FR: so i met her the other night.....

[OddManOut85]

so that girl ive been talking about,well,i finally met her friday.we met at a bar,had a few drinks,then met up with a freind of hers,went to her place,drank some more,played some cards,her roommates came over.i met some new people.and i had fun.and all in all it was a good time.nothing happened though.could be because either shes not interested in me like that,or we simply didnt have any alone time.she does want to hang out again.positive notes: i made her laugh,alot.i kept pretty good eye contact.we seem to have alot in common.unsure notes: she did refer to me as her freind.possibly,thats all shes seen me as.does that mean i have already been freindzoned? now whatever happens,if we become freinds,we become freinds.we go out,we go out,i bang her a few times,i bang her a few times.

 

[MrS]

She introduced you as her friend, what else was she going to say?
"This is Bob."
Blank stares, who the **** is Bob?
"He's my friend".
Ooooooh.

 

[Cableguy]

She introduced you as her friend, what else was she going to say?
"This is Bob."
Blank stares, who the **** is Bob?
"He's my friend".
Ooooooh.

Exactly. I've yet to be introduced as any thing other than "friend" when I first start dating someone. It's the PC thing to call someone if you will. Quick question for ya. Did you try and kiss her goodnight? I mean if you had a good time and she was laughing all night I would've taken that as a good thing and gone for a kiss. If you don't want to end up in the friendzone make sure you let her know you dig her and are attracted to her. Worst she can do is say no.

 

[donjuan87]

nothing happened though.could be because either shes not interested in me like that,or we simply didnt have any alone time.

If you both were really interested in each other, you two would have found some alone time.

something to think about

 

[OddManOut85]

well thats sort of the thing,like i said before,i wanted to go for a kiss close,but didnt get the chance.eveyone was pretty drunk too.so that might have factored in.i think she knows i like her.and she does want to hang out again.so maybe that will be my chance.i mean,i like this girl,no,woman i should say.she's 27.so yeah.kind of two different mentalities.i want to see were things go.whatever happens happens.