FR : Skill or luck I'm not sure

[So pimp its scary]

It's been along time since I've bothered posting here, too many people that seem to have all the game mastered on paper, but so clearly lack the right mentality to be anything better than average with women... For those that have posted long enough here to recognize my alias knows that I don't claim to be the best player out there, but still better off than alot that post here...

Anyway, that being said, this is from last Friday.

I went to this after hours techno bar with a good friend of mine, we were already half-cut when we got there, and waiting in line my buddy runs into a couple girls that he met the weekend before. We talked for a while untill we get in...

Once inside, we met up with their group of 5 hot women 7-9's, and a couple average women... they were all tripping on ecstasy. We managed to grab a table a little later on, this bar is pretty chill atmosphere, people came to sit at the table that we didn't know, chat a lil bit and then go back to their friends...

One of the girls friends was a 9.5 redhead, she was wearing this skin tight getup that showed her stomach and evertime she would leave the table any guys that were sitting there would be like 'wow, what I would do to get a chance with her.' I mean this girl was intimidating hot, where I wasn't even gonna bother approaching her if she wasn't with the girls that were sitting at our table.

Most of the night I was chatting with this girl probly a 7, she was gradually showing a bit more and more IL, untill I was ready to ask for her number, just then the hot redhead sits next to me, and we start talking a little bit. She starts talking about how she wants to take off, and grab some food (it's already 7am by this time), I start teasing her a bit about it 'I see your tricks... trying to use your boobs to your advantage so I'll buy your breakfast'

Finally, I grab my buddy, and brought him and this girl he was macking to a greasy spoon close by.

After eating she offers us to come back to her place to crash till we could hop a train a couple hours later... we get to her place and she gets dressed in her comfy clothes... JESUS she was looking good, like 5'6 110lbs at most, and she invites both me and my friend to her bed.

My buddy was more interested in crashing, but she's all leaning against me and rubbing my feet with hers, etc... then we start making out, my buddy hears, gets up and leaves... then this dirty tells me, 'I should have played footsie with him a bit more so he wouldn't have left so quick.'

Once he was gone it was as easy as just making out with her and slowly taking off her clothes.... what a pleasant surprise when I found that she had a **** ring to top things off...

 

[IamtheAlphamale]

Ok, first of all it sounds like half luck half skill to me. Second of all the game is flawed because all it really is is action. Who cares if some newbies are giving advice. When people screw up they learn from their mistakes. Rejection makes you stronger. People always come to this board and say this board has gone to **** etc. What those people forget is this is a self help site. The main purpose of this site is to make yourself into a better man. It being a dating site is just a cover. The newbies who give advice and stuff like that have not yet dropped their ego (they are scared to be seen for what they are). The hate you have isn't needed. The game is this.. develope your self esteem. Once your talking to a girl all it is is a game of self worth. If she classes you higher than her she will want you badly. Thats the game. If we didn't have newbies at this site noone would be here. We are all here for the same purpose. Self developement has many stages. Also some people are just arrogant a like me. PEACE

 

[So pimp its scary]

Ya the sig part I should change, because whether or not it's relevance is still there... I don't contribute enough anymore to be a worthy judge of the general skill level of the board.

I will explain where that came from... when I first joined this site, there were lots of guys that posted greatness regularly, I had gone through all the improvement I could by simply reading and figured that helping others in the position would help me figure out what was needed to step my game up a notch... like others it felt useless when most people wouldn't even bother with the base reading before asking irrelevant questions. Once the great posters started leaving... a few names I can think of are Pook, Mr Fingers, Pimpologist, and Player Superme to name a few (not sure if any of them do still post here anymore, but some of them got booted thanks to trolls)

Anyway, after they dissappeared, there was a large group of people that started giving advice that, but reading into the attitude behind their posts clearly were only parroting others advice with no real clue.

Hlaf skill - half luck is about how I attribute things. I mean, luck that she sat next to me and made the approach a non-issue. And skill in the seeing the opportunity and taking full advantage of that opportunity... without fvcking it up.

 

[frivolousz21]

there was a poster I think called spider or something..im not sure..

but he had a few thousand posts...but never went on one date.....it was guys like him that made me leave..and now that I have a kid and fiance..I have different priorities..

the site seems to have much less traffic now.

 

[Play the Game]

there was a poster I think called spider or something..im not sure..

but he had a few thousand posts...but never went on one date.....it was guys like him that made me leave..and now that I have a kid and fiance..I have different priorities..

the site seems to have much less traffic now.

Whats up Frivolous, I remember him from back in the day. Haven't been here in a while, just glanced in here to maybe help a couple AFC and it seems there's a lot less bickering on here than it used to be.

Man good old days, is my buddy Puertorican Lover still around??

 

[frivolousz21]

Whats up Frivolous, I remember him from back in the day. Haven't been here in a while, just glanced in here to maybe help a couple AFC and it seems there's a lot less bickering on here than it used to be.

Man good old days, is my buddy Puertorican Lover still around??

he was banned atleast a year ago...I remember it was like war in here..becuase you had the Keyboard Dj's and the ones in the field argueing.

Im not sure how long I will be here..but its nice to see there is less crapola

 

[Play the Game]

he was banned atleast a year ago...I remember it was like war in here..becuase you had the Keyboard Dj's and the ones in the field argueing.

Im not sure how long I will be here..but its nice to see there is less crapola

Well good luck to you.

Nothing like getting out there and being a man by yourself. This site was just a stepping stone for me on the path to becoming who i really wanted to be.

I look at some of these people's questions today and i can see that they're only problem is their mindset, not the answer to the question. They lack self esteem and worth to determine what the right decision is.The right decision is ultimately can only be made once you respect yourself and understand that women are selfish just like the rest of us.

 

[So pimp its scary]

PRL was another good one... There were a couple girls that posted for a while, They had an interesting take on things.

Nothing like getting out there and being a man by yourself. This site was just a stepping stone for me on the path to becoming who i really wanted to be.

I look at some of these people's questions today and i can see that they're only problem is their mindset, not the answer to the question. They lack self esteem and worth to determine what the right decision is.The right decision is ultimately can only be made once you respect yourself and understand that women are selfish just like the rest of us.

I was so glad I showed up when I did, when the great ones were just dying off, and I was able to see the transition from where there was more substance to the discussions to where it became almost like a pity party.

I'm also glad that I came into this website from the right state of mind... at the lowest point I had known as far as dating goes, cause unlike alot of the others I was out there week after week trying to get this all figured out for myself... and damn did I improve, but I only felt at the level of average.

This is where my bigest dissappointment from this website comes... too many people showed up at the same time looking for a quick solution, they improved half a notch and then moved on to be replaced by 3 or 4 that were even less skilled. The problem was trying to find someone that was better than average to learn from, and kept seeing myself as one of the top guys (not in writing skill, but in game) and kept having to seperate for the newbies what was good advice and which was bad... or to help them go to the next level only to dissappear when they realized that I would only bother seriously guiding someone that was willing to take certain steps and exercises that I've done myself to figure this shyt out.

Oh man, I'm ranting again...

Which is funny cause I've hardly read most of the new posts... to see what callibre game is behind the posters about a year later...

 

[spider_007]

there was a poster I think called spider or something..im not sure..

but he had a few thousand posts...but never went on one date.....it was guys like him that made me leave..and now that I have a kid and fiance..I have different priorities..

the site seems to have much less traffic now.

awww you remember me????:wave: that's so sweet:flowers:

so how many you got so far; 2 kids with 2 different b*tches?????

"but baby, it feels better without a condom"

but anyways, i don't want to argue with you any more....there is too much drama on here in the first place