"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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FR: ski trip, kinda hot, but confusing

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So some time ago I went on ski trip to Switzerland. The trip was with tourist group, so basically, I didn't knew anyone. As I am 21, fortunately, most of the people on the group were youths. We were living in apartaments, six ppl in each. So in my apartament were living: me, 2 other guys, HB7 and HB7.5. All these people were friends, so I was the stranger.

As I found out HB7.5 had bf, so my attention was to HB7. She was very cute and had a very nice character. On the road to our destination, I got some smiles and looks from HB7, so I was optimistic. But we were unable to talk much because we were seated off. When we arrived at apartament, it came to our attention that in one room there were 1 bunkbed for 2 people and it was immediately occupied by one guy and HB7.5, 1 double bed and 2 single beds. 1 single bed was located in livingroom/kitchen so noone liked to sleep there. So there were 1 double bed and 1 single bed in bedroom and there were me, the other guy and HB7 to share these beds. There was idea that me and this guy should sleep in double bed and HB7 would sleep in single bed. Of course I objected and said that I only sleep with girls, so we agreed that I will be sleeping with HB7 and this guy will be sleeping in single bed right next to our bed. :rock:

The first evening we were flirting with HB7 all the time and it was looking fine. When we went to bed HB7 made bed and put 1 blanket, so we had to share it and I was like, that's too nice. On first night, I didn't want to make a move, because I was afraid to scare her off, but she was sleeping facing me and very close to me. So I guess she was very comfortable.

Second night, I was a little drunk and I made a move, I grabbed her hands, massaged her abdomen, back, neck, scalp, etc and she digged it. When I tried to undo her bra she wouldn't let me and then I tried the pvssy and she was against it too, I tried to kiss her - same sh|t!?!? :confused: I asked what's the problem and she said that she got realationship developing back in the home. I was like wtf!? :confused: push her away and went to sleep.

Then next day she was flirting, smiling, etc. Of course I was always CF, etc. So at night I made a move and she was ok. At first she didn't let me to her nipples and pvssy, but after some struggle and massage I got in, I fingered her and I am pretty sure she came, but right after that she moved my hand away. But I never got to kiss her, because she wouldn't let me.

This happend almost every night and morning, but we never had actual sex or kiss. Only me fingering her and she comming.

As I understand she used me as a sex toy, while staying innocent to her developing realationship. Apart from that she was really cool person, intelligent, hot and we had lot in common. I tought she really dug me.

Now I am back to home, what should I do, try to ask her out? :confused: Anything? Comments welcomed!
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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That is one ****ed up story. She let you finger her everynight but didn't let you kiss her at all. Are you shure she was awake :->, only joking.

If you like her, call her up! What have you got to loose.
 

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d9930380 said:
That is one ****ed up story. She let you finger her everynight but didn't let you kiss her at all. Are you shure she was awake :->, only joking.
Yeah I am sure, she was awake... :D

Hitman10000 said:
Do you know what the f*ck you want from this girl?
Actually I am not sure, but realationship would be nice or a real fvck...
 

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I'm sick right now and can't concentrate properly so sorry if I miss something

utax said:
she was really cool person, intelligent, hot and we had lot in common. I tought she really dug me.
:cry: When did she become intelligent? Did she read to you some Einstein ****, or, paraphrase words in a perfect manner? Really! Did she solve your algebra homework? Never ever do that. You gave a false calification to a woman just because she opened her legs (only to your finger though, that's later).

Next, there is such thing as "escalation" in life, and in seduction. One step at a time. You attempted boob touching and all without ever kissing. Kissing is a very intimate act, and opens up more doors. So while you're making out you escalate the kino on boobs and *****, to the undressing... to the etc.

Yes, you got it right, she used you as a sex toy, why? Because that's what you are (this is in the same thought as you thinking she is intelligent). But, your aim was your **** to be the sex toy, not your finger.

The thing is, you put the focus on her, to the "glory" of this ho, and you were looking as a little girl, to please. Not as a man, but as a girl. So first step is to change your mentality. Once you changed it, get in action.

What do you do? Look for other women. once you had sex with at least two other women, you call her. If she calls you first, you proceed as I and the DJ Bible said.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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SamePendo said:
When did she become intelligent? Did she read to you some Einstein ****, or, paraphrase words in a perfect manner? Really! Did she solve your algebra homework?
Actually she didn't have to do anything of that to be marked as intelligent. Definition: Intelligence is a general mental capability that involves the ability to reason, plan, solve problems, think abstractly, comprehend ideas and language, and learn.
So basically, spending few days with her and talking with her, I was able to conclude that she is a intelligent person.

SamePendo said:
You attempted boob touching and all without ever kissing. Kissing is a very intimate act, and opens up more doors. So while you're making out you escalate the kino on boobs and *****, to the undressing... to the etc.
I am sorry I didn't mentiont that in the first post, but actually, before boobs I tried to kiss her, but she didn't returned my kiss, so I went next level. And when I got to boobs, pvssy, etc, every now and then I tried to kiss her, but nothing!

SamePendo said:
The thing is, you put the focus on her, to the "glory" of this ho, and you were looking as a little girl, to please. Not as a man, but as a girl.
Ok, I could agree to that.

Just one question, how would you have dealed this situation from the beginning?
 
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