"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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FR - Single mom clubbing

Vanilla

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It's been a long while since I've been on the hunt so decided to just enjoy the night and try a club tonight. Right from the start met this very welcoming, albeit chubby HB6 who certainly had an interest in me. Since we were the first ones there, we had time to talk. She mentioned it was her way to escape the crazy world of raising a child by herself and is also new to the clubbing scene after not being there for 10 years. We did dance together the whole night and she kept trying to hide from one of the creeps that showed up. At one point she said "that's my man" as I held her close.

I got her number and only got her cheek when I went to kiss (I waited too long, lesson learned). She's certainly interested. I'm just looking to have fun with her, not a LTR. I'm thinking of calling her to watch a movie and see where that goes, maybe at my place so she's not distracted by her kid.

Should I bother?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Tiguere

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Delete her number. Move on. That should had been a one night stand. You screwed up by not kissing early and dedicating her your whole night. WHAT A FVCKING WASTE OF A NIGHT OUT. GO REEDEM YOUR SELF TONIGHT.

For future reference single moms are pump and dump. Now if that was a 18-24 single/no kids hb 7 and up then your number grabbing and date setup would had been the right path.
 

nismo-4

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She certainly in another castle is what she is.

All because you waited too late to escalate. I waited too long to make a move on a woman who was giving me buying signals, and making it clear as day with a big ass neon sign. Judge nismo let fear and negative thoughts hold him back.

That little scenario is just a guide to what happens when you wait.

Case closed.
 

CJ 101

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Ypu should have quickly escalated from the beginning but i would say invite her over to your place and **** her, let her give you head and nut in her mouth. What i'm saying is invite her over and have fun with her and by fun i don't mean playing video games if you catch my drift.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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