"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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It's been a long while since I've been on the hunt so decided to just enjoy the night and try a club tonight. Right from the start met this very welcoming, albeit chubby HB6 who certainly had an interest in me. Since we were the first ones there, we had time to talk. She mentioned it was her way to escape the crazy world of raising a child by herself and is also new to the clubbing scene after not being there for 10 years. We did dance together the whole night and she kept trying to hide from one of the creeps that showed up. At one point she said "that's my man" as I held her close.

I got her number and only got her cheek when I went to kiss (I waited too long, lesson learned). She's certainly interested. I'm just looking to have fun with her, not a LTR. I'm thinking of calling her to watch a movie and see where that goes, maybe at my place so she's not distracted by her kid.

Should I bother?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Delete her number. Move on. That should had been a one night stand. You screwed up by not kissing early and dedicating her your whole night. WHAT A FVCKING WASTE OF A NIGHT OUT. GO REEDEM YOUR SELF TONIGHT.

For future reference single moms are pump and dump. Now if that was a 18-24 single/no kids hb 7 and up then your number grabbing and date setup would had been the right path.
 
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She certainly in another castle is what she is.

All because you waited too late to escalate. I waited too long to make a move on a woman who was giving me buying signals, and making it clear as day with a big ass neon sign. Judge nismo let fear and negative thoughts hold him back.

That little scenario is just a guide to what happens when you wait.

Case closed.
 
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Ypu should have quickly escalated from the beginning but i would say invite her over to your place and **** her, let her give you head and nut in her mouth. What i'm saying is invite her over and have fun with her and by fun i don't mean playing video games if you catch my drift.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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