"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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FR: Shy girl turned slut!

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myspace spamming -> did it a week ago, got a sn from a 21 year old asian girl from Boston University, we made plans to hang out and go play some pool/bowling sunday afternoon. She is pretty cute, 5'2 100 lbs little asian girl, tinyness, i like that ****. (i like alotta things, as long as its not fat or ugly lol)

The whole time, i was talking 95% of the time cuz she was shy, very very shy! BUT i wasnt talkinga bout myself...........i was either joking around (and she was laughing) or i was asking her about her (life story)..............we played bowling, pool, ping pong, she actually beat me in 2 outta 3, but i was just loud and ****y thru out, in a funny way tho (she was laughing alot)

then it hit me

i KNEW exactly what to do with her.........i was horny, i wanted to fcuk

i tell her "lets go watch a funny movie".......she says "sure"

haha she thought we are gonna go to a movie theatre, instead i drive to my house, she doesnt say ANYTHING about it.........the whole time, i whip out this CD i made which has reggae/reggaeton/techno/hip hop and i play a "judging game" with her, where we rate the songs and see what is the best genre of music (kinda like a 4 way match, every song for itself lol), it kills time and its fun...........

at my house, we watch a funny movie like i promised, i use the isolation to turn things up and we start kissing, we kiss for 15 minutes or so, and i just pick her up and take her upstairs to where theres a bed.............she said several times "slow down, this is too fast for me", all i said to that "no problem, just keep kissing me baby" - and i carried on with escalating

i was weakly rejected like 3 times with her little statements, i just ignored them and proceeded as if she wasnt talking.............i ****ed her nice and hard and that was that! she said afterwards "i never do that"

CLASSIC

lesson learned - just isolate and escalate!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i had a shy asian girl who didnt look like a ho at all, and i ****ed her after 3 hours of meeting her

this can be applied to basically most girls, so that's how u escalate to having sex on a 1st date
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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But why does it have to make her a slut...

A slut is a woman who f*cks AROUND and is not selective.


You can't say that women who are not in relationships and have night stands once in a while (but most just anyone, rather quality seducer) is a slut.

This way...I'd say all women are sluts.
 
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Babnik said:
But why does it have to make her a slut...

A slut is a woman who f*cks AROUND and is not selective.


You can't say that women who are not in relationships and have night stands once in a while (but most just anyone, rather quality seducer) is a slut.

This way...I'd say all women are sluts.

she was a slut with me - yet came off as a shy girl for the whole time up until i escalated, learn from it.
 

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skip to my lou 781 said:
she was a slut with me - yet came off as a shy girl for the whole time up until i escalated, learn from it.
But why label her as SL*T?

So any woman you seduce is a slut?

Being shy doesn't reduce sex drive. Shy guys are just as horny as bold guys.
 
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Babnik are u a devli's advocate? you took the last possible thing that i was trying to make into a point, and ur arguing against it.

if you think in such a wishy-washy manner, then its no wonder why u post so many threads asking so many bad questions.

I ****ed her 3 hours after meeting her, YES SHE ACTED SLUTTY (and theres nothing wrong with that, i liked it), but THE point of the thread is

"isolate and initiate" - its a Field Report, no need for petty arguing
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Was she crazy in bed? It's always the shy and quiet girls that are crazy sex freaks.. I swear.
 
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NFC said:
Was she crazy in bed? It's always the shy and quiet girls that are crazy sex freaks.. I swear.
she moaned pretty well yea, but we didnt have enough time to **** for more than 10 minutes, cuz she was late to dance practice before we even started lol...........u got any experiences to share with shy girls NFC?
 

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Yes.

I dated one. I thought she was a prude. For the hell of it.. one day I started persueing things a little more.. started feeling her up etc.. next thing you know I am railing her in her car.
 

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skip to my lou 781 said:
she was a slut with me - yet came off as a shy girl for the whole time up until i escalated, learn from it.
The two are not unrelated.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The "slvt" term may be a little harsh - for the sake of not offending the sensitive ones on this forum, from here on in let's just call her a hor, shall we? :rolleyes:
 
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Guys, the ones that are slutty looking and acting are not always the biggest freaks. It's just an act. The shy ones are the biggest freaks. We all should know this.
 

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Last Man Standing said:
The "svut" term may be a little harsh - for the sake of not offending the sensitive ones on this forum, from here on in let's just call her a hor, shall we? :rolleyes:
Thing is... if a girl would not be a hor and a slut and would not be putting out - she would eventually get dumped and called a cold-hearted b*tch.

She puts out - slut.
She doesn't - b*tch.

There is no such thing as a good woman then.


And lets say in her life she sleeps with 4 men, and one of which seduced her within 3 hours - you would call that a hor?

Because you have to select from about like 0.00001% of women. Good luck.
 
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Ripper said:
Skip, is/was this girl square/a prude?

she was your typical shy but cute asian girl - she did seem somewhat like a prude cuz she gave me last minute resistance 3 times or so before i got her naked and even after i got her naked, to which i used a golden line "its ok i'll stop, but i just wanna keep kissing u"..........worked
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Babnik said:
Thing is... if a girl would not be a hor and a slut and would not be putting out - she would eventually get dumped and called a cold-hearted b*tch.

She puts out - slut.
She doesn't - b*tch.

There is no such thing as a good woman then.


And lets say in her life she sleeps with 4 men, and one of which seduced her within 3 hours - you would call that a hor?

Because you have to select from about like 0.00001% of women. Good luck.
Are you calling 1 minus 0.00001% of women hors?

Believe it or mot there are men looking for a woman for a purpose besides the stank hole between her legs. Most men pursue women because of their complementary feminine nature? Don't judge by the dudes on this site -- they are virgins and their sole purpose is to lay a hor!!!

If a woman doesn't "put out" doesn't make her a biatch!!! Dudes that call women that for not opening their legs to them are merely frustrated for being rejected!!!

The only women I respect and would consider for a serious relationship is a woman who does not and did not open her legs to men!!!!!
 

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true or not, this story gets me wondering. i wonder how std infected such a creature is. condoms are useless against hpv. so.........

this isn't the real skip to my loser. there was no mention of myspacing a broad. no links to pictures of a w***** with glasses on. nope, this is 100% an impostor. next time be sure to add how you myspaced the broad out. how she responded to one of your massive messaging campaigns.
 
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sorry Sparky, if u really wanna see that, then here u go:



hey, haha yeah random messages on myspace are sketch sometimes, but hey giving people the benefit of the doubt sometimes isn't so bad. how did you find me on here? btw, my sn is xxxxxxxxxxx



----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: XXXXXXXX
Date: Feb 16, 2007 12:14 PM


heyy i got no idea how "myspace" is supposed to work, but you are so fcuking hot!!! i'm not tryin to be sketchy or anything cuz girls hit on me here and i think WTF do you want lol, so I kno what your thinking right now haha but you are seriously so beautiful and I had no choice so I wanted to hit you up and talk to you, whats your sn if you got one babe?
 

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skip to my lou 781 said:
sorry Sparky, if u really wanna see that, then here u go:



hey, haha yeah random messages on myspace are sketch sometimes, but hey giving people the benefit of the doubt sometimes isn't so bad. how did you find me on here? btw, my sn is xxxxxxxxxxx



----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: XXXXXXXX
Date: Feb 16, 2007 12:14 PM


heyy i got no idea how "myspace" is supposed to work, but you are so fcuking hot!!! i'm not tryin to be sketchy or anything cuz girls hit on me here and i think WTF do you want lol, so I kno what your thinking right now haha but you are seriously so beautiful and I had no choice so I wanted to hit you up and talk to you, whats your sn if you got one babe?
now that is the skip to my loser that we all love and admire:cheer: i can't even follow that message you sent her. hell, i can't even follow her message. the two of you were made for one another. looooose as a goose. right?

i bet you will get no love from the asian dudes. they can't pickup non-asian broads. so that was kind of a b**** slap to each and every asian dude.

now post some links to pictures or video. i wanna see the skipster at work.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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