"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

FR: Sarging with sisters

HOSS83

Don Juan
Joined
May 23, 2005
Messages
36
Reaction score
0
Location
Red Sox Nation
Being the only male in a family with 4 attractive sisters means one thing: HOT sister's friends. :D I hit the club last night with two of my sisters and four of their friends (all of whom are wicked hot). When you walk into a club with six attractive girls, well, you'll get noticed.

So we grab one of those half circle lounge chairs and are sitting around, drinking, etc. Guys are buying me drinks left and right to get close to the girls I'm with.

I head over to another table with a HB9, a 6, and some older chick they are sitting with who's actually cute. I sit right next to the 6.

Me: You know its my birthday?
6: Really?
Me: Nah not really... you girls look bored over here.
6: Obviously you're not bored with all your friends over there. :)D )
Me: <pointing to the girls> Them? Aw, I don't even know them.
6: Aren't you going to buy my friend a drink (HB9). She just broke up with her b/f.

<This pickup was just handed to me on a silver platter>

Me: I actually didn't bring any money...I was gonna have guys that hit on my sister buy me drinks all night.
HB9: hahahahah. Whats your name?
Me: Hoss, you?
HB9: HB9
HB9: How tall are you?
Me: 6'4"
HB9: I like tall guys. My boyfriend was 6'3"
Me: Then I'm an inch better :D

we make some small talk, etc, they are headed to some other bar and invite me along but I decline... get HB9#, kiss goodbye, and back to my group. At this point, there's like 4 or 5 dudes talking to my girls. I tell them that if they want to keep hanging out with my girls, they'll need to buy us all Jagerbombs and a Captain and Coke for me. They pool money and do it :crackup:

I get bored and approach another hb8.

Me: Hi
Hb8: hi
Me: You see those girls over there? I run a modeling agency and am always looking to add another pretty girl to my arsenal.
Hb8: really?
Me: Nah
Hb8: hahaha <punches me in the arm> so what do you really do?
Me: I'm an astronaut.
Hb: hahaha oh thats cool.

we make small talk for a while longer, i tell her i need to get back to my "models" and we exchange #s

I had a blast, and F-closed one of my sister's friends who is currently making omelettes as I typed this. :D

Moral of the story is I went out to have a good time, not worried about girls or anything, and I had a blast; got two numbers off hot girls and hooked up with my sister's friend. Going out to approach is a good mindset, but don't make it the end all be all; having fun should be #1 priority.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Tyron

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 1, 2005
Messages
141
Reaction score
1
and thank you David. ;) Great job man. Socialproof and ****y+funny, guaranteed success.
 

Damian

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 13, 2005
Messages
440
Reaction score
3
Location
San Diego, CA
Awesome.

Great use of...well, SIX pivots!
Displayed value and connection. Made yourself look like the center of attention. Executed some great lines. good job
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Top