"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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FR: Santa Hat Chick

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Over the Xmas break went to stay with my cousin at the beach for about 3 weeks, although floating around different places at times during that. He rents a pretty fancy place on the canal, with a pool and stuff, area where I used to live a few years back.

First Fri night down there (just before Xmas) go with him to his local bar. Female talent is pretty minimal although I am more there to catch up with him so don’t really care.

That night, to set the scene, I still had a huge moustache (think 70’s porn star), a Movember carry over.

Some time later in the night I am just standing playing some pool, a band is playing, when some hottish blonde chick in a flashing Santa hat makes eye contact with me, I hold it, and she then comes and drags me up to the dance floor. At the time there was like maybe 40 guys in the bar, and probably 3 hot chicks max, it was those sort of odds.

Making out ensues, tease her and end up taking the Santa hat off her and wearing it…ha ha. She tries to get it back without success, pretends she’s upset but secretly she loved it.

Ended up outside making out with her a bit more, but couldn’t get her to come home to my cousin’s place, but get her number (it was the right one since she texted it to me).

Next day, send her a pic of the Santa hat on a cat figurine, no response. Text her once more later in the week (like Wed), no response. Figure it’s a lost cause..

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In the following week, I end up shaving off the mo, so I look completely different, back to my usual “22 year old” self…ha ha. Clean-shaven I do look a lot younger than 28.

The following Friday go to the same place with my cousin. As we go inside, I see her outside in the smoking area.

My cousin and I are inside for a bit, she sort of goes past but doesn’t seem to recognise me. So I go over a bit later in the night and say hi. She didn’t recognise me without the huge mo, but is obviously still into me.

At the end of the night, she ends up coming back to my cousin’s place with me. End up having some beers out on the back deck and the jetty near the canal (including make out) under the stars for an hour or so, but finally end up taking her into my bedroom.

Afterwards, before she is leaving, she insists on knowing how old I am (she is 24). She doesn’t believe I’m 28 so I show her my licence. Even then, because I playfully pretend that it might be fake, she still thinks I am 22.

Pretty much from then on, saw her at various times over the next couple of weeks. She knew I was from up north and would be leaving in a few weeks, but she was into it.

Had a one nighter with some UK chick chasing Aussie d!ck somewhere in between (random bar pick up the night before she left on the next leg of her trip), but also saw Santa Hat Chick several more times before I headed off.

Took her out to play pool a few times and have a meal, and she tried to pay for it each time, she was that sort of girl.

Ended up banging her in my cousin’s pool out the back next to the canal under the stars a few times which was quite good fun.

And then it was time for me to leave to head back north. Ended up banging her brains out again the night before I left (she knew I was leaving the next day). Parted as friends, sent her a text on her birthday (which was a few days after I left), she said she had a blast meeting me.

I kept the Santa Hat.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Awesome report as always bro.

Think I liked about this report the most is how you didn't have sour grapes when you saw her at the venue again, even though she didn't respond to your texts.

Just goes to show that girls really do live in the moment and as long as you didn't go majorly AFC, you should still go take what you want.







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Pimp-sicle said:
Awesome report as always bro.

Think I liked about this report the most is how you didn't have sour grapes when you saw her at the venue again, even though she didn't respond to your texts.

Just goes to show that girls really do live in the moment and as long as you didn't go majorly AFC, you should still go take what you want.
Yeah, and I couldn't really care too much since I was holidays.

Just goes to show, if a chick is into you, she will overlook things like the fact that you are leaving in a few weeks.

Meh, had a few laughs, she seemed like a sweet girl, but I was always leaving. Nice to leave it on a high with the possibility for another hook up open next time I'm down there ;)
 

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Speaking of recent bangs, this one called me out of the blue last Friday night, wanting to catch up with what I was up to. Think she was still pining after my d!ck.

Somehow, she thinks I'm a bad boy (even though, I'm always Mr Sensible ;) but they never seem to believe me since I'm always teasing when I say it ... ha ha)

Never added her on facebook (still haven't) but possibility for a fb whenever I head down that way again. :rock:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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