"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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FR: Salsa night

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Well some of the guys from the dance studio and I went all over the city to look for good dancing clubs. Many of them were terrible, but ended up with a salsa club that we're familiar with.

They stood by while I danced with over a dozen women during the night. I am not the best dancer, but I sure as hell tried. I made it entertaining for the ladies, I saw them laughing and having a good time. Some kept their eye contact the whole time, I wasn't sure how to react other than looking back at her.

As for getting them in a sexual state, usually the dance ends with a hug then I don't usually see them for the rest of the night. Any advice you guys can give me?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The fact you went out there not caring what anyone thought, wanting to have a good time, you showed real guts dude...good job.
 
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