Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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FR: Salsa night

Vanilla

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Well some of the guys from the dance studio and I went all over the city to look for good dancing clubs. Many of them were terrible, but ended up with a salsa club that we're familiar with.

They stood by while I danced with over a dozen women during the night. I am not the best dancer, but I sure as hell tried. I made it entertaining for the ladies, I saw them laughing and having a good time. Some kept their eye contact the whole time, I wasn't sure how to react other than looking back at her.

As for getting them in a sexual state, usually the dance ends with a hug then I don't usually see them for the rest of the night. Any advice you guys can give me?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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oscarxp25

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The fact you went out there not caring what anyone thought, wanting to have a good time, you showed real guts dude...good job.
 
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