Fr : Rutgers First NIte

[judoguy]

I get there around 8 30 pm... My buddy is working in the computer lab so I decide to go hang out with him while my other buddy gets back.

I see a HB 8.5 on the computer so I decide to warmup and get the night started.

I sit down next to her and this is the convo

me: You doing a paper?
her: NO... I am actually applying to another college
me: OH yea really where?
her:blah blah
me: thats cool

( 2 min of silence)

me: hey I dont really hang out here much... I go to another school... anything going on tonight..
her: Im not really sure I have alot of work to do so Im just staying in
me: haha oh great... I got stuck sitting next to the nerd
her: hey ! stop im not a nerd
me: yeaaaa right
her: Im not hahaha
her: I need to think of 3 ppl to put on this application that I want to meet
me: Ghandi, Mohammed Ali, (my name)
her: who is (my name)
me: thats me... duh
her: hahahahah ure such a jerk !

( 5 min. of silence)

me: I just want to let you know your not getting in any of those schools
her: DOnt say that !
me: hahaha
me: hey look if you decide to stop being a nerd, you should come hang out
her: um idk
me:Gimme your number
her: ok.... puts it in phone


I text her like an hour later saying did you decide to not be a nerd

She says something like IM not a nerd you dont know me blah blah

I say you need to come hang out so I can make sure your not getting in trouble sexi.... then she never responded haha oh well

Four hours later.....

Me and my buddies start drinkin and hang out

His 3 chick neighbors come up... two 6's and a 5

I have trouble isolationg... get weird looks and even called out on my kino..( um what are u doing) ...embarassing haha

Couldnt isolate at all.. but will be back in for round 2 tonite..

Ill send another FR

 

[HandyAndy]

I loved the first convo, it was really funny

 

[Prodigy746]

I have trouble isolationg... get weird looks and even called out on my kino..( um what are u doing) ...embarassing haha

OMG THAT JUST MADE MY DAY MAN. I literally laughed for a good min or so.

 

[ezily]

I have trouble isolationg... get weird looks and even called out on my kino..( um what are u doing) ...embarassing haha

what were you doing?

 

[judoguy]

I kept touching her leg.. and then put my arm around her ... she was like what are you doing ... why is your arm around me ???

 

[judoguy]

Yea well Round 2 sucked...The 6 "had to study" and gave me like no IOI

The HB 8.5 never responded to my text and it all around sucked.

Nite's like this make me want my Ex back so bad

 

[ezily]

I kept touching her leg.. and then put my arm around her ... she was like what are you doing ... why is your arm around me ???

was she responding well to this touching or did it seem to creep her out? I mean you must not have been doing it in the right manner or maybe the arm around her was too much. Oh well no point in dwelling on it I guess. You probably just came on a little too strong too soon.

And don't think it was such a bad night. That'll just put you in a negative mood which isn't healthy. I like to take stuff like this as learning experiences.

 

[BMX]

1st convo kicked, I need to do more of that.

 

[ElStud]

That was pretty good man. Didn't start that great, but it kind of picked up after the two minutes of silence in which you negged, which was good. And in the end you got the number which was good. Reason I think she flaked though, was because you never qualified her. You negged her which worked, but once she was interested, you never qualified her. Once she was interested would've been a great time to go for rapport and maybe kino too. In the end lol you really shouldn't worry that much about why one girl flaked, could be millions of reasons.

Yea well Round 2 sucked...The 6 "had to study" and gave me like no IOI

The HB 8.5 never responded to my text and it all around sucked.

Nite's like this make me want my Ex back so bad

Okay, she had to study but what does that mean to you? She's probably only studying because she has nothing else to do. Picture this, Brad Pitt walks into the room, is she STILL going to be studying? No she's going to go talk to Brad Pitt. Basically, you've got to go in there, offer value and get her out of that studying state. And who cares if she's not giving you IOI's? You should keep talking to her regardless. Some girls just take longer to open up. I mean I could even see "I have to study" as a sh*t test almost and by walking away because she said that, you're reacting to her and you're failing the test.

 

[In Motion]

And in the end you got the number which was good.

Wow, whos that? It must be....

Captain Obvious! OMG

 

[HandyAndy]

That was pretty good man. Didn't start that great, but it kind of picked up after the two minutes of silence in which you negged, which was good. And in the end you got the number which was good. Reason I think she flaked though, was because you never qualified her. You negged her which worked, but once she was interested, you never qualified her. Once she was interested would've been a great time to go for rapport and maybe kino too. In the end lol you really shouldn't worry that much about why one girl flaked, could be millions of reasons.


Okay, she had to study but what does that mean to you? She's probably only studying because she has nothing else to do. Picture this, Brad Pitt walks into the room, is she STILL going to be studying? No she's going to go talk to Brad Pitt. Basically, you've got to go in there, offer value and get her out of that studying state. And who cares if she's not giving you IOI's? You should keep talking to her regardless. Some girls just take longer to open up. I mean I could even see "I have to study" as a sh*t test almost and by walking away because she said that, you're reacting to her and you're failing the test.

You should start taking your own advice....you do NONE of this in your FRs, yet you tell others to do it, thats like giving free money away because you think you have enough

 

[ElStud]

You should start taking your own advice....you do NONE of this in your FRs, yet you tell others to do it, thats like giving free money away because you think you have enough

Well I don't neg because it's just not me. I don't like going up to girls and insulting them, even if it is playfully. I qualify ALL THE TIME in my FR's, which is why I get the sense that you either don't read all of them or you just skim through them and don't read the whole thing. Read my most recent one, I clearly say that the Samantha girl is cute. I admit kino is something I got to work on, but even I've been doing that a lot more recently with girls. Plus you got to understand, I'm not trying to 'get' with every girl I talk to. Sometimes I just talk to girls for the sake of talking to them. But nonetheless, carry on, for this topic is not about me.