"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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FR/RR: This Is A Warning (but a fun one)

PeterCrouch

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You said make a comment so how about this

"I Like Cheese"

Good work btw!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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G-Man UK

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Well I would like to add something to Shezz's FR but to be quite honest he's pretty much summed the night up.

It was a fairly dull night really, busy, noisy, we were'nt in the mood blah blah blah and overall it will go down as a failure, a rare failure but a failure nontheless.

However in a way more has come out of this failure than a standard, successfull night out. Sarging and life for that matter does'nt always turn out the way you had planned so what you need to do is learn by your defeats in order to improve and grow as a person.

Another key thing to remember is don't let failure dampen your spirits, turn it into a positive and look forward to your next night out!

Respect

G-man
 

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The most glaring mistake I see in your approaches is that you go for number closes WAYYY to soon.

Mebbe its an English thing, but here in the states, you gotta get her juices flowing a little more before you get the digits. In most cases you gotta give her a rreason to want to talk to you the next day, otherwise you get lame responses like "i can't remember my number" :rolleyes:

Good work nonetheless. Keep it up!
 

quest

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i liked it.
except the bit about club pickups being hard.

GUYS U NEED TO TAKE THIS IN!

DO NOT LISTEN TO THE GENERAL CONSENSUS -


GOOD DANCER? YOU'LL PICK UP GIRLS FOR SURE.

this is actually an excuse from AFCs. I can't dance, therefor i can't pick up at a club.

I am VERY successful at club pick ups. I am just as uncomfortable dancing as the rest of you.

the best way to pick up at a club is approach a girl/set of girls near the bar, or sitting somewhere (just go and sit with them and start talking 80% are up for a chat, 20% are lesbians) when you want isolation "lets go dance" and when they come, take there hand, walk as though you're the only 2 people in the club, cutting straight through wherever you want. grab her close, face to face, now you don't even need to dance, its more just, look into her eyes "MAVEC" and kiss her.

she came to dance for a reason.

you need talk no longer then 10 minutes to get that dance.

if she brings friends with her, attempt to isolate on the dancefloor, if that doesn't happen, bail.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by The_Shezzler

Moral: If your not in the mood, and the girls are not in the mood, added to a crowded, noisy environment - spirtits will be deflated BUT...

Sarge On.... [/B]
Speaking of not being in the mood, and sarging on - check out my FR/RR about the campus.

getting laid would have really lifted my spirits though!! :rockon:
 
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