"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Cloud-uk

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I have never done a lot of field reports in the past, but I feel I should start now. I'm making the transition from 'ok' with girls to being awesome, so at least for the best part they'll be interesting.

So, last night I went to the rocky horror show with four mates (2 girls, one an awesome pivot (love her so much!) and the other my ex whom I still sleep with on/off). Show was awesome; we were all dressed up of course, I was sporting some tasteful stripey socks, skirt and corset. Mmmm sexy boy.

So after we hit Yates and get some shots, ****tails and odd looks. We get chatting to these other people that saw the show, one bloke, one UFG and the girl who pole dances (say an 8.5). I went for the UFG...nah jokes.

So I get chatting to polegirl and she drops in how she strips and so forth. Played that down with "Oh wow! Loads of my friends do poledancing, it's such an art don't you think?". Then she drops in that she has a partner (argh! pisslips!), so i keep chatting for a bit then push her over to my pivot.

I get her to pose for some hot pictures but that's all I got from this girl. We left Yates and moved onto Reflex (an 80s themed bar). Polegirl give me a sob story about how she has low confidence, how the "girl on the pole isn't really her", how she wants to be a real dancer. About here I start to strongly dislike her, and all pole dancers/ strippers by association. However, she seems to know everyone in York so she gets me free drinks and a lollypop. So she shows some interest...

I spend my time in Reflex chatting her up, dancing like a trannie loon with my mates and having an awesome time. For a poledancer she dances like a tool. I go for a number close but get burned ("I can't remember my number" BS). Fair enough, she was a prat so I ditched her and cruised on with my mates to a nightclub.

Now, it has to be said here that dressed as a woman I was getting so much attention it was unreal. A bit from guys too, *less good*, but overall it worked pretty well. Quite hardcore peacocking, if you've got the balls to go with it.

Hit the nightclub and I open on a HB7 (bit plain, but very tappable) with the smooth line "WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING AT!?:cuss: ", which had been my principle opener that night. Got awesome vibes off this girl, who's just finished Uni (I'm a fresher) and snowboards, so get in some kino, some tests (can you cook? Do you have a big TV? Ripped off Shezz there- cheers!), then left her to go dance with my friends. She comes over later, bit of grinding then a k-close and got her number.

Only bad side of the night was my ex got jealous so f-buddies is pretty much off. Damn! Still, probably for the best- I needed kicking out of that comfort zone.

All in:
1 k-close
2 number attempts
5 openers in total that didn't just fizzle out
And a damn good trannie night!

Things learnt
Jump at opportunities to dress-up, I need to work on vHB and strippers a lot more, I need to do more field reports :).

It's just a step to your left...:rock: :rockon:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Jump at opportunities? Why not create them;)

I so have to find a single day to get dressed up that isn't on halloween.
 

Fash

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Nice work mate.

Having a pivot around always helps. It does wonders for raising your value and making girls feel comfortable around you.

Not sure about dressing up as a woman though, but way to go with the peacocking! :up:
 
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