Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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FR: random fvcking night out

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So a couple days ago I get invited to a bar for a bday celebration by my cousin. I went since I had nothing better to do (though wasn't impressed that ppl showed up 30 mins after me, but not a big deal since I ran into ppl I know. Anyway, my cousin introduces me to one of her friends. She's a cute girl, nice body, a 7. She asks me a few question then tells me she's going to find her friends and will be back. I go off and hung out with the ppl I ran into. Ran into the girl again after that, we're talking, little bit of kino from both of us. I take her hand and tell her to follow me. Lead her to the dancefloor. Music sucked for dancing but whatever. We start grinding. I have my hands on her hips and she moves them to her ass. She turns around to face me, and kisses my cheek. I go for the lips and make out insues. We then move around the bar talking to ppl and making out. I get her number at one point because I knew my battery won't last (and she tells me I have permission to text her, like that wasn't obvious). We make out a bit more and I need to go. She keeps telling me to text her and I say "sure". Oh, and apparently her friend told a couple guys that this girl wants to fvck me which they relayed to me (like it wasn't obvious). All in all not a bad night (other than I spent twice as much money as I planned).

Anyway, I thinking of contacting her in the next couple of days and try and get her out for drinks this week. The only issue I have is I'll have to try and get her back to her place since I'm just crashing at a friends (on the couch) til I move into my new place.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Got a quick question guys. Would it be better to contact her sooner rather than later? I was thinking of calling her mon and asking her out for mid week. But maybe that's too short notice and should contact her tomorrow (I think contacting her today would seem too eager).
 

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She's a bar slvt. Why didnt you called her last night. Call her up asks what she's doing and come up with a way to go to her place. Forget taking her out. You shouldn't be spending one cent on this hoe. Call her now and see what she's doing if she's busy now ask her to see you tonight. If she declines without a counter offer. Forget her for now.
 

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I met her last night. And she's a bar slvt because I was introduced to her at a bar? I didn't randomly approach her, this is more of a social circle thing.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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NorwegianDJ

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Don't always follow the rules. The rules are guidelines, it's up to you what you're gonna do.
 

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And she's a bar slvt because I was introduced to her at a bar?
Her behavior indicates she is a bar slut. She was very forward, practically leading the physical interactions. Placing your hand on her @ss for example. Do you think that's ladylike behavior?
It's possible she just really, really likes you, but I'd say it's more probable she's been up and down the road a few times.
Most likely suitable for FB status only. But hey, YMMV.
 

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if shes telling her friends she wants to **** you then yea shes a ho. just call her, set something up and bring back to your/her place. just realized you met her a couple days ago, enough time has already gone by call her asap before she forgets you.
 

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I gave her a call today when I was bored. We're meeting up for drinks later this week. I'm pretty sure I got this.
 
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