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FR: Quick Bar Make-Out (short)

Randallpink83

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I posted about an instant make-out before.... And even though this one isn't INSTANT, it does fit in with my "Push the girl to physical escalation as quickly as possible" scheme.

Instant Make-outs aren't exactly kosher... But they teach you a good lesson in just being dominant and going for what you want will work wonders at times.

Was at the club the other night in the smoking patio outside, and I tried this idea I have heard about for so long but always thought it was lame sounding. I didn't even plan this AT ALL... Don't know why it came out...
Girl, HOT, seriously hot little blond, Came up asking my friend for a cigarette, I totally ignored her question and just on a whim plowed into it. "On a scale from 1 to 10 how good of a kisser are you?".. "why you want to test it?" she asked, "Fvck no, I'm just wondering" .. then she thinks for a bit, "umm probably an 8".. "AN 8!!?!?" my eyes open up all big, "No way.. I have to test it out then" grab her by her hips and pull her in and she jumps back "Noooo i cant kiss you".. I grab her by the hips again and keep pulling her towards me "You HAVE to kiss me, you say you are an 8 I HAVE to find out". bam, done deal, we make out for a minute or so... She was good, nice french.
Afterwards though I went totally wrong. Gave her a cigarette and she is like "so how did I do?", and then regrettably i said "eh.. maybe like a 6 or 7" it went downhill from there. Stupid me... Then she went back to some dude who she was apparently with.

Looking back on it I would have rather say something simple "it was good". But we all make mistakes and learn.

I'm going to start focusing more on hooking the girl first and getting her attracted before I push for the physical escalation anymore. I think it will serve me better... Just grabbing these girls and tounging them all down is valuable lesson to learn I think but, I need to take it to the next level... One of my next goals is to fingerbang a girl right in the club bar, I will let you know how it all goes. But I'm gonna go about it by attracting and hooking first then making out and just keep pushing from there... I feel like fingering her by 10-15 minutes is a good enough time, haha... Not a very classy goal, but ts just something I want to do.
And ofcourse I will always be looking for a pull, f-close.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Seriously, props, Randallpink. I've never tried anything that quick. Awesome job.

It's amazing to me how simple it was for you. Keep closing, sargeant!
 

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Thanks guys... Yeah thats the whole point of doing a make-out mission like this. It really helps bring out that dominant aggressive side out... you get good at it too... When I first started doing this I was getting turned down a lot (wolf, that wasn't the first time a girl jumped back trying to escape while laughing.. lol)... But thats what I realized, its fun for them too... even when they are like "OMG hes trying to kiss me" they still can't help but giggle like crazy... they love it... In fact I believe 70% of my rejections from make-outs (instant make outs) were because her friends were watching, so she couldn't get into it... most all the success was when the girl was away from her social circle (hence the power of isolation)...

I will probably try hitting up instant make-outs some more, cause it is a lot of fun and really gets you into the moment... But i'm gonna focus more on running a little more solid pick-up game, trinkled with the alpha, fun paced instant make-out style.
 

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haha how funny... I was just checking out my old posts... I wrote this like 10 months ago I guess?
I'm in a different mind frame now. When I wrote this I seemed to be discrediting instant make-outs a bit - HOW STUPID!!! haha... Well I wanted to make my stuff tighter.

But now I don't care anymore - I'm going in hard and Physically escalating very quick now... FULL ON SEXUAL VIBE EXPRESSION!!! Hardcore fun intent.

I want to take it even farther - Harder escalation... I'm telling you guys, girls love this stuff! And even if they ddin't, it wouldn't matter, I would still do it cause I love this stuff.

...btw, I did get that fingerbang in the club a little after this post. This cutie was with her female friend and they were doing the whole 'make-out with each other for attention' thing. So I rolled in and kept pushing it further, pulling her titty out and making the other suck it. then I just did it... pushed my finger in to those wet panties (she was wearing a miniskirt).
Turned out she was the girlfriend of one of the main hiphop acts that night that was putting on a wet t-shirt contest - isn't it funny, one of the main dudes of the night - bringin all this value - feeling all secure of his position, meanwhile his girlfriend is gettin sexed up by her friend and some random dude in the same room. That is the real world of pick-up - girls are horndogs.
 

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BOY,is Elstud going to be jealous. Kissing a girl during the approach is ALL he post about.
 

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Sounds like one of those really fun nights out huh? Gotta love those.
Great job dude.

I wanna point out something:

This whole encounter with the female can be split into 2 halves: 1st and 2nd. 1st you did GREAT - James Bond got competition. 2nd - you FUKED UP.

Just by reading the way this all went on - you were on top of your game, in the moment, on top of point. I don't care if that initial pick up line was pre-made.. you were authentic and you were FLOWING.

Second part:
is the result of typical PUA insecure nerd shiit that is all over the internet. If I were you I'd actually look in her eyes and say id give you 11, maybe in a slightly joking tone. To me it seems like PUAs and wannabe's are feeling not worthy enough on a deep level.. and that's why they tell people to "neg", insult, on so on - basically to try and bring her down to your level. Anybody else think that there's something wrong about this?
 

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DJVladdy said:

Second part:
is the result of typical PUA insecure nerd shiit that is all over the internet. If I were you I'd actually look in her eyes and say id give you 11, maybe in a slightly joking tone. To me it seems like PUAs and wannabe's are feeling not worthy enough on a deep level.. and that's why they tell people to "neg", insult, on so on - basically to try and bring her down to your level. Anybody else think that there's something wrong about this?
ever have a girl constantly neg you? Eventually you get tired of it, you take a long hard look at her, and decide you can do better. When this happened to me, I didn't feel the need for negs anymore. Anyway from what I understand negs are for icebreaking, not for constant use, correct?
 

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Lol man don't ask me that stuff im not a PUA. What i'm sayin is sure be ****y/sarcastic AT TIMES - when its approapriate and you feel like it. If you have to constantly dis someone means you are insecure about yourself.
 

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haha that's cool! would have been fun to watch go down

and I agree w/ the other guys. reward her when she acts how you want. a neg is something you throw out when she's resisting you, not during a buying temperature spike
 

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i told a girl "you're such a dork" with a smile. She laughed and loved it. Her buying temp actually went up.

Tease negs are actually flirty. You can use quite a few of them.

But sniper negs should be used with caution - "Is that your natural hair color" "You got something on your chin/in your ears" - these may lower self-esteem or just take her off the pedestal.

If you tell a girl "you are a 6" after she kisses you, you are definitely NOT negging her, its more like an insult. I'd say "not bad" with a smile, and then continue flirting.
 

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DJVladdy said:

Second part:
is the result of typical PUA insecure nerd shiit that is all over the internet. If I were you I'd actually look in her eyes and say id give you 11, maybe in a slightly joking tone. To me it seems like PUAs and wannabe's are feeling not worthy enough on a deep level.. and that's why they tell people to "neg", insult, on so on - basically to try and bring her down to your level. Anybody else think that there's something wrong about this?
Yeah, I DO!!

Even 10 months ago when I first posted this I said it was a mistake... I was trying to game too hard...

I'm so much different now. I don't "game" anymore - I just go for what I want.

....But anyhow enough of this debating PUA theory stuff. This thread is more hardcore than that!! THIS IS THE INSTANT MAKE-OUT THREAD!! :rockon:

Be assured, more hard hitting action to come. who's with me? :cool:
 
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