"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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FR - Practicing approaching women

Kal0051

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Ok, so a while ago I decided that I wanted to be more popular with women. But my biggest stumbling block was approaching a woman that I didn't know. I'd always choke. Well, that's when I found this forum, and read some of the stuff on it. Anyway, last night I was out with a few friends for a party. Wasn't intending to try approaching any women mainly because I was just out to have fun. We went to a bar downtown and after I had a few drinks I felt kinda in the zone. So when I saw one of my friends approach this group of older women (probably late twenties/ early thirties) and saw him get shot down I decided to try and help him (though I'm pretty inept at this too...). So I go up and started chatting with them, and at that point the hottest one of them (HB 8 or so) started paying attention to me. We chatted for about 15 min, she was saying that my friend's too young for her, so I joke around and asked "How 'bout me" (I'm about 5 years older than my friend), she just laughs, says that I'm still too young but starts feeling my arm and chest. We end up flirting and talking for a bit and as I go to hang with my friends I kissed her.

So I'm hanging with my friends again, and I see the same friend as before try a horrible line on this group of really cute girls (He asked if they believed in love at first sight). Well, they blow him off and as they go to walk away I stopped 2 of them to ask what my friend said to them. They tell me, I laughed and asked them what they thought of it. They said it was lame, we all laughed and when I started to focus on one of them the other one left. So, again we chatted for a bit but my friends ruined it, they run up to me and say that we're leaving for a strip club. So I said buy to the girl but I didn't try for her # (I regret that now). So while I was able to approach I could only do it once my friend broke the ice (even though he did it in such a horrible way)

Hehe, I should also say what happened at the strip club just 'cause it's interesting. So ya, there was this one amazingly beautiful stripper there (easily a HB 10, no lie) and all my friends were drooling over her. Anyway, she leaves the stage and other ok girls started dancing. So I watching them, drinking my beer and someone comes up behind me and hugs me. I turn around and it's that stripper who was on earlier. We introduce each other and she tells me she wants to take me into the back (?!). I go with her and she brings me to a private room, we talk for a bit and tells me I can touch anywhere I want. She starts giving me a lap dance, takes off her top and sticks her amazing tits in my face while feeling my crotch. So of course I start feeling her tits, and sucking on them. She then turns around, bends over, and I started slapping her ass. She takes her panties off and started grinding into me. After a minute or so she leans back onto my chest and I start feeling her tits and put one of my hands just below her naval. She then takes that hand and puts it on her pvssy and tells me to finger her. I'm good at following instructions so I do. She's making all kinds of sounds at this point, and eventually she gets off me. She drops to her knees in front of me and starts giving me a bj and titty ****. I blow my load in her mouth and she goes to try and put my **** in her pvssy. I guess I chickened out at this point saying I should really get back to my friends. She says ok, we both get dressed, I asked how much for the dance and she said it was on the house (we were in there for about a half hour). I really should have fvcked her but it was my first time at a strip club and I never thought that would happen. I wonder if I went back she'd do the same thing, but I won't chicken out next time.

Anyway I need tips on approaching women. Next weekend there's this party my friends having and there's this really amazing looking girl that gonna be there (I want to fvck her). I asked my friend to introduce me and he said he would and that she'd probably fvck me (he already fvcked her). But I'd rather get her in bed with as little of his help as possible. So I have a week to get good at this.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Julian

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Dude you got strippers begging to fukk you and you are trying to figure out how to talk to a girl at a bar. GTFO
 

Kal0051

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yeah, I know, it's fvcked up. As far as the stripper is concerned I probably was just in the right place at the right time (she probably would have slept with any decently looking guy). I would never be able to pick her up otherwise. And I can talk to girls, I usually have success once I get over the crap that stops me from approaching (more often than not the girl approaches me or one of my friends introduces us and breaks the ice).
 
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