"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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FR.. Pick up.

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So i go into a pizzeria with my friend to get a slice. im sitting down talking with my friend and through the door comes Latin HB8.5 w/ Nice tight body.
Anyway so shes looking around where to sit after she orders and she comes sits in the chair by me. So i look over at her and my friend says "get the #, im gonna go outside so u can talk to her" He leaves and shes there reading a book,.... and here we go

Me: So what are you reading...? :smile:

HB8.5: Huh? Oh, um… a book for school.

Me: Ohh. Studying? ::smile::

HB8.5: :Smile: a little bit.

Me: ::devilish smirk:: Am I bothering you?

HB8.5: No no its okay :Smile:

Me: Ohh okay. So what do you do? What are you BTW? (I knew she was Spanish but I created small talk)

HB8.5: Im a legal assistant and a Model, Im Columbian.

Me: Ohhh, You don’t look Columbian :smile: say something in Spanish for me to verify that :laugh:

HB8.5: :laughs: Um…. I dunno :laughs:

Me: That’s okay, :smile: What do you model?

HB8.5: I do photo shoots and recently won a Beauty Contest for Ms. Columbia.

Me; Oh yea? That’s cool.

HB8.5: Yeah

Me: Well, I have to go but lets hang out sometime and get a drink.

HB8.5: :Smiles: Okay… Heres my number.

Me: Ok great ill give you a call :smile:

HB8.5: ok :smile:

pretty smooth # close here. I like these opening where you can make a comment or question without saying Hi first. for example if shes reading a book you can start off with "what are you readying" or if shes drawing something you can come in and say "what are you drawing?". anyway,... ill try to post more FR soon.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Nice # close man. Did you initiate any kino while talking to her? It's good to leave her in a sexual state, as she will fantasize about your next meeting.
 

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Good. But try spending a little more time building chemistry with her before you # close... at least 15 -25 minutes. That way a day 2 will be more easy and likely to happen.
 

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jdon23 said:
Nice # close man. Did you initiate any kino while talking to her? It's good to leave her in a sexual state, as she will fantasize about your next meeting.
I didnt use any kino except for something i forgot to mention, she had just gotten her nails done, and i held her hand to comment on how nice they were, nothing much but your basic little compliment. what i did use was something i call "Devilsh EC" Its a deep look into her eyes while holding a small smerk. I works well for me because when i put that look on it signals right off the bat that i want to bang her. Paul Janka is big on this too. Wish i could meet him because he lives here in the city too, just dont know where he lives lol.
 

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daygameguy said:
Good. But try spending a little more time building chemistry with her before you # close... at least 15 -25 minutes. That way a day 2 will be more easy and likely to happen.
**** that. Wayyyy too long. 15-25 minutes? U kidding me? Leave on a high note (movie trailer routine), don't say too much so as to **** up your game, 15-25 minutes, is way too much time to be giving a 'potential' mate.

Paul Janka all the way baby.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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