"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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FR.. Pick up.

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So i go into a pizzeria with my friend to get a slice. im sitting down talking with my friend and through the door comes Latin HB8.5 w/ Nice tight body.
Anyway so shes looking around where to sit after she orders and she comes sits in the chair by me. So i look over at her and my friend says "get the #, im gonna go outside so u can talk to her" He leaves and shes there reading a book,.... and here we go

Me: So what are you reading...? :smile:

HB8.5: Huh? Oh, um… a book for school.

Me: Ohh. Studying? ::smile::

HB8.5: :Smile: a little bit.

Me: ::devilish smirk:: Am I bothering you?

HB8.5: No no its okay :Smile:

Me: Ohh okay. So what do you do? What are you BTW? (I knew she was Spanish but I created small talk)

HB8.5: Im a legal assistant and a Model, Im Columbian.

Me: Ohhh, You don’t look Columbian :smile: say something in Spanish for me to verify that :laugh:

HB8.5: :laughs: Um…. I dunno :laughs:

Me: That’s okay, :smile: What do you model?

HB8.5: I do photo shoots and recently won a Beauty Contest for Ms. Columbia.

Me; Oh yea? That’s cool.

HB8.5: Yeah

Me: Well, I have to go but lets hang out sometime and get a drink.

HB8.5: :Smiles: Okay… Heres my number.

Me: Ok great ill give you a call :smile:

HB8.5: ok :smile:

pretty smooth # close here. I like these opening where you can make a comment or question without saying Hi first. for example if shes reading a book you can start off with "what are you readying" or if shes drawing something you can come in and say "what are you drawing?". anyway,... ill try to post more FR soon.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Nice # close man. Did you initiate any kino while talking to her? It's good to leave her in a sexual state, as she will fantasize about your next meeting.
 

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Good. But try spending a little more time building chemistry with her before you # close... at least 15 -25 minutes. That way a day 2 will be more easy and likely to happen.
 

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jdon23 said:
Nice # close man. Did you initiate any kino while talking to her? It's good to leave her in a sexual state, as she will fantasize about your next meeting.
I didnt use any kino except for something i forgot to mention, she had just gotten her nails done, and i held her hand to comment on how nice they were, nothing much but your basic little compliment. what i did use was something i call "Devilsh EC" Its a deep look into her eyes while holding a small smerk. I works well for me because when i put that look on it signals right off the bat that i want to bang her. Paul Janka is big on this too. Wish i could meet him because he lives here in the city too, just dont know where he lives lol.
 

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daygameguy said:
Good. But try spending a little more time building chemistry with her before you # close... at least 15 -25 minutes. That way a day 2 will be more easy and likely to happen.
**** that. Wayyyy too long. 15-25 minutes? U kidding me? Leave on a high note (movie trailer routine), don't say too much so as to **** up your game, 15-25 minutes, is way too much time to be giving a 'potential' mate.

Paul Janka all the way baby.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

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