"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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FR: Petite jet-black haired 20 yo student.

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Met her through OLD.

We were to meet on day X, but she postponed it till next week since she had to study more for some exams ...

Hit her up again on Sunday, and we scheduled for Wednesday. We meet and she really is petite.
Little over 5' and around 95 lbs. We grab a beer, which she insist I help her finish since It would be unfair since her tolerance is low. Conversation is average at best I keep asking but also let the silence stay there for some time. She bumps into me innocently a couple of times. I ramp it up and she is compliant, soon she reciprocates.

After we finish the beer I take her for a walk in the only right direction. At my place I put on some smooth music, light the candle and ask If she wants something to drink. Couple minutes later I just throw her on the bed and we go at it for a good 2,5 hours. She performed very well, might see her again.

That was so simple I almost can't wrap my mind around it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Well that was interesting.

She visited me week later and it was a blast. I was all sore and drained from fatigue the next day. Spent. Gym and that girl really put a toll on me that weekend.

Turns out she has a Master and loves pain. She sent me some photos of her marks.
We taped a video of her going down on me. K!nky slvt :D

She might come around when she comes back this autumn ... Interesting to say the least. I might get a chance to try out my not yet existent rope skills which I wanted to develop for some time now .....
 
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