"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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FR:Party Gate Crash

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Don Juan
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o yeah headed out at half 7 to get the bus up town. Started talking to a guy at the bus stop about everything from the Loanhead were i live to travelling and all that Jazz. It felt good to be out again talking to strangers.

Arrived at Native State i love that place! Its got a good vibe very funky and plenty of seats just how i like a place to be. I chilled for a bit and PrinceofFunk turned up. While at the bar i noticed a HB5 if that tbh was listening to our conversation obviously we were very interesting hehe.

Since it was the start of the night i figured it would be a good warm up. Just looked at her and laughed and she apoligized for listening in. After a couple of mins it became kinda apparent she was drunk but **** it. After giving her ideas for a ****tail or drink (Maduri and Appletizer guys) she invited me and Prince over to join her and her friends.

Stayed in that set for a while fluffed chatted away talked about what we did all that jazz etc and Ender,Blaze,Projectile and Saltire turned up. Tbh we probebly should have stayed and opened up another few sets at Native state the place was busy and there was a couple of really big groups, however we decided to move and find a fresh place.

We Headed into Belugas and went downstairs it was real ****ing loud Prince opened up a 6 set of Irish girls, however only one started talking and listening, i headed in to wing and try and get her to introduce us to her pals and then split the set, She didn't take the hint of "so who are your friends then?" Then just as i was about to eject and leave him to it Prince Ejectedl I look back now and i see i was talking to much so sorry dude was just in a talkative mood need to curb that.

We went upstairs to see what was happening it was kinda quite but there was one girl dancing about in a witches hat i started chatting and ended getting my photo talking with the hat on, She was real drunk so we left it be. We chatted amongst ourselves for a bit about game etc and i saw a mixed 5 set i wanted to open got a case of AA however that had't happend in a while. Saltire pushed me though and i opened up just because i was scared to do it. Got chatting but couldn't reach a hook point for some reason. I later realised why.

As we sat and talked Saltire mentioned that he got a kinda weird vibe that somehow everyone in the place knew each other. I noticed that prince had opened up a HB7.5 and a hb4.5? Maybe im gettin harsh with whats a 10 in my eyes lol. However i could see the obstacle looked kinda bored so went in and started chatting away to her. She was pretty boring and left for a fag while i heaved a sigh of relief. Smile chatted to Prince and his target i could see why he like her she was fun hot and played the guitar. We stayed with that set for the rest of out night in Beluga since it enlarged to a mixed 7/8 set. I chatted to some of the girls started wearing ones crevatte commented on anothers Wedding ring, shes getting married in 5 years apparently.

At one point during the night everyone started singing happy birthday? Odd i thought, i mean every ****er in the place was singing it not just a few tables...... then it dawned on me, we had just crashed a private birthday party!!!! that was why that set had failed to hook because i had opened up with do you guys know any good places to go on a saturday night, i had actually asked the bday boy were was better than his bloody party! ****ing hell. We left a little before one Price Number closed his target and we moved on to Medina.

I liked the place its got a good vibe but it wasn't that great for sarging at the time we went at the place was kinda quite at first and i commented on that it felt like a school disco with all the guys on one side and all the girls on the other. All of a sudden that 10 feet looked like a ****ing mile. I didn't approach in there, i was pissed at myself for being such a wussbag but i realise that everone has an off night. That usually doesn't happen to me and it was new to me to feel so scared like that however that will be dealt with.

Me and Saltire headed headed after a bit we checked out espionage but the line was ****ing mental. So all in all slow night i enjoyed myself was good to get out with the lads again.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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