blind_one
Master Don Juan
I did not post for a while as the season was in full swing and I had some payed time off work so I went to action.
Little background
I know this girl around 2.5 years. ( Never contacted her, nothing ) We met through social circle back then on a music festival that is held every year she was with her BF. Since then I have seen her maybe 3 times at most. Every time through my extended social circle. Her BF lives in A where she lived for 18 years (she's 22 ) but now she's studying in B where I live ( 120 miles apart). Last year I spit some game at her and she ate it up like a young pelican.
This time she was at the festival without her BF. " Not his type of music she said " During these 3 days she was entering my proximity an abnormal amount of times. Kino is there ,we laugh, tickle. Last night of the festival me her and my friend and her are back at our tentsite. He goes to sleep, we talk and wrestle on the grass. I stroke her hair, talk some more and I end it saying we gotta wake early to catch the train. I close the tent and 2 minutes later she comes in :
" I don't like unreturning favors like that ( referring to the skull rub ) "
"Sure you could give me a back massage "
So I lay down, she says that my back is really hard ( no pun intended haha it doesn't translate well, love me some pullups ) .
Then I proceed to massage her shoulders and after a couple of minutes she says ok and leaves.
Now you might ostracize me for not escalating in a perfect setting like that but let me explain some circumstances:
1. She has a BF ( fvck me and my morals )
2. Our social circle was literally 3 feet away and I could never be certain everyone was asleep but nvm
3. I am a dummy and didn't realize the opportunity until later ( little rust here + she did not register on my radar because BF red light
That situation did not change the way we interact.
We all go back from the festival and our gang convinces her to come with us for 2 days to stay and party. We all have a great time , she helps me prepare a pizza and we play with the dough. She leaves for a backpacking trip ( also without his BF , I lend get my knife and cooking stove ).
Couple days later our social circle gets smashed at my best pals bday. His GF who is friends with that girl asks me if I like her.
So we are all tipsy ( just me my pal and his GF ) and go on like she's cool and we seem to have good conversation when we talk and all and I ended that convo.
So now I smell a big branch swing/social hook-up incoming and/or some excitement from the uncertainty. She might dump the chump or maybe not, but in a couple of weeks when she is back to studying locally she's willing to party. Already know better not to treat her seriously if she branch swings.
Sent me a postcard from Norway's Nordkapp 2000 Km away from home. Mentioned my knife and how we should make another pizza when she comes back.
All in all ,would not mind incorporating her into my sphere of influence.
Hope it was a good read. Your opinions, always welcome.
Little background
I know this girl around 2.5 years. ( Never contacted her, nothing ) We met through social circle back then on a music festival that is held every year she was with her BF. Since then I have seen her maybe 3 times at most. Every time through my extended social circle. Her BF lives in A where she lived for 18 years (she's 22 ) but now she's studying in B where I live ( 120 miles apart). Last year I spit some game at her and she ate it up like a young pelican.
This time she was at the festival without her BF. " Not his type of music she said " During these 3 days she was entering my proximity an abnormal amount of times. Kino is there ,we laugh, tickle. Last night of the festival me her and my friend and her are back at our tentsite. He goes to sleep, we talk and wrestle on the grass. I stroke her hair, talk some more and I end it saying we gotta wake early to catch the train. I close the tent and 2 minutes later she comes in :
" I don't like unreturning favors like that ( referring to the skull rub ) "
"Sure you could give me a back massage "
So I lay down, she says that my back is really hard ( no pun intended haha it doesn't translate well, love me some pullups ) .
Then I proceed to massage her shoulders and after a couple of minutes she says ok and leaves.
Now you might ostracize me for not escalating in a perfect setting like that but let me explain some circumstances:
1. She has a BF ( fvck me and my morals )
2. Our social circle was literally 3 feet away and I could never be certain everyone was asleep but nvm
3. I am a dummy and didn't realize the opportunity until later ( little rust here + she did not register on my radar because BF red light
That situation did not change the way we interact.
We all go back from the festival and our gang convinces her to come with us for 2 days to stay and party. We all have a great time , she helps me prepare a pizza and we play with the dough. She leaves for a backpacking trip ( also without his BF , I lend get my knife and cooking stove ).
Couple days later our social circle gets smashed at my best pals bday. His GF who is friends with that girl asks me if I like her.
So we are all tipsy ( just me my pal and his GF ) and go on like she's cool and we seem to have good conversation when we talk and all and I ended that convo.
So now I smell a big branch swing/social hook-up incoming and/or some excitement from the uncertainty. She might dump the chump or maybe not, but in a couple of weeks when she is back to studying locally she's willing to party. Already know better not to treat her seriously if she branch swings.
Sent me a postcard from Norway's Nordkapp 2000 Km away from home. Mentioned my knife and how we should make another pizza when she comes back.
All in all ,would not mind incorporating her into my sphere of influence.
Hope it was a good read. Your opinions, always welcome.