bukowski_merit
Master Don Juan
Both of these were girls from online.
FRIDAY NIGHT:
Messaged her on Friday during the day.
I would love to show how we first interacted but apparently she blocked me over the weekend which deleted our whole conversation (let's just say 80% of it was sexual).
The highlight was my opening message to her...
Which I don't remember what it was. But she gave me a one word answer. I didn't respond to it because I don't respond to one word answers. About 45 minutes went by and she sends me a second message which was a lot longer than the first; it was a more detailed answer.
I responded with "Glad you updated your response, I have no interest in talking to someone who has no idea how to have a conversation."
From that I was looking for her to qualify herself. Explain that she likes to talk. That she was just busy or something.... And that's exactly what she did.
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We talk, and like I said, it was 80% sexual stuff. She keeps saying "I don't want you to think that I'm all about sex though. I'm looking for a boyfriend." I say, "yeah same for me, but so many girls on here just want sex, it's annoying" etc. Just about every time she brings this up. Then we go back to the sex talk.
She asks me what I'm doing later (when a woman asks the question like this it normally means she wants to hangout).
I say "Hanging out with my friends a little bit then... not much."
She says "Cool, well I'm having a get together at my house. About 10 people. Everyone there is dating; so I need a date. Interested?"
Ok... Now it's time to break down some things:
1. I don't like going to another girls house. My lay % when girls come to my house is like 95%. My lay % going to girls house is like 30%. I think there's just a power shift when a woman comes to your house vs. going to their house. They're much more comfortable being in control of the situation and not getting out of control of themselves.
2. I absolutely hate meeting women for the first time with their friends. I think your looks are way more important when you meet them with their friends. A woman's reputation is not on the line when she meets you in private. It is when she meets you with her friends. The same thing as above has been noted. My lay % when meeting women with their friends is SUPER low... Like 10%.
So I tell her, "I'll consider it if you and me can go somewhere first and get to know each other in person before hanging out with your friends." She didn't seem to like that idea. I detected that she didn't like that idea. I tell her, "you're coming off like a real amateur." She didn't like that either.
No contact for a few hours and then, "This party if falling apart. Everyone is pulling out. Now it's just 2 other people coming. My night is ruined. Sigh"
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To shorten this long story: I agree to come to her place. And she agrees to 2 things. 1) We're going to drink together and I'm staying the night. 2) We will go somewhere first and get to know each other.
I get her address, and even though I thought she was only 30-40 minutes away. It turns out she's 1.5 hours away!
When i get to her house, a woman who isn't her stops me and says "park there, she'll be out in a minute." I was confused who this woman was, but it turns out it's her neighbor. She comes out and looks nothing like her pics.
Her face looked similar, but her body had close to 10 extra lbs on it. She was wearing classy clothes in all her pics; she had on jeans & t-shirt when she came out. On top of that, she looked like she had big tits in her pics, and they were at best a B cup.
So I'm disappointed, but hell, I drove 1.5 hours; maybe alcohol will change my opinion temporarily enough to salvage the night...
That's what I thought until I saw the look she gave her friend.
It was a look of disgust.
Greeattt.... I don't like her and she doesn't like me.
Again though, alcohol can change this.
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From my FR last week: some of you might remember me saying when a woman say:
Because, when I hand her the bottle of Jaeger, I told her I was bringing she says, "Oh, I've decided I'm not going to be drinking tonight. Just not in the mood."
I instantly don't want to be there. But I'm legitimately hungry, so I say, "let's go get something to eat."
Her neighbors are outside (man and woman who are dating; both are under 21) and she starts talking to them. Then she INVITES THEM ALONG and they accept. Go back up and read 1 & 2. She has now officially broke her word on both things. I hate her instantly.
Charm = off
Any attempt to be amusing = off
Not going to lecture (yet). Just going to try to be the worst date ever. They pick a place.
She asks if I want to drive. FVCK NO! So she agrees to drive all 4 of us.
We go there. They're talking among each other about stuff and people I do not know. And generic stuff sheep talk about like what cool movies are out at the theatre. I don't want to be here... I'd rather be at the wrong end of a firing squad.
We get there. I make friends with the guy. He's from the area I'm from and still works there. I also talk to his girlfriend. They're both pretty cool. I pay ZERO attention to the girl.
In fact, I start making a game in my head. Everytime she talks, I pay no attention to what she says and try to change the subject. It works sometimes; other times it makes me look like a social reject; but I really don't care. My disgust is bubbling over.
Her "mom" calls her and says she needs to be picked up from a bar. How convenient... She says "I'm going to have to go pick up my mom, you can't go with me, that's too many questions i don't feel like answering." I don't even ask if she wants me to stick around.
We get back to her place. I go to her freezer and get my alcohol. She sits down outside and says she can talk for a little bit. I say "ok." And continue walking straight to my car and get in and drive home.
There's an accident on the way home and it takes me an extra hour to get home. 2.5 hours+1.5 hours = 4 hours of driving.... Just to hangout with some barely average woman for less than 2.
She texts me that leaving like that was rude. I tell her lying is rude too. She says she wasn't going to drink with someone shes not attracted to and that that's the worst date she's ever had. I say it was the only thing that could have made the drive worth it. Blah blah... childish stuff. Then i say "ok im done. bye"
I guess that prompted her to block me on POF.
END of STORY #1....
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FRIDAY NIGHT:
Messaged her on Friday during the day.
I would love to show how we first interacted but apparently she blocked me over the weekend which deleted our whole conversation (let's just say 80% of it was sexual).
The highlight was my opening message to her...
Which I don't remember what it was. But she gave me a one word answer. I didn't respond to it because I don't respond to one word answers. About 45 minutes went by and she sends me a second message which was a lot longer than the first; it was a more detailed answer.
I responded with "Glad you updated your response, I have no interest in talking to someone who has no idea how to have a conversation."
From that I was looking for her to qualify herself. Explain that she likes to talk. That she was just busy or something.... And that's exactly what she did.
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We talk, and like I said, it was 80% sexual stuff. She keeps saying "I don't want you to think that I'm all about sex though. I'm looking for a boyfriend." I say, "yeah same for me, but so many girls on here just want sex, it's annoying" etc. Just about every time she brings this up. Then we go back to the sex talk.
She asks me what I'm doing later (when a woman asks the question like this it normally means she wants to hangout).
I say "Hanging out with my friends a little bit then... not much."
She says "Cool, well I'm having a get together at my house. About 10 people. Everyone there is dating; so I need a date. Interested?"
Ok... Now it's time to break down some things:
1. I don't like going to another girls house. My lay % when girls come to my house is like 95%. My lay % going to girls house is like 30%. I think there's just a power shift when a woman comes to your house vs. going to their house. They're much more comfortable being in control of the situation and not getting out of control of themselves.
2. I absolutely hate meeting women for the first time with their friends. I think your looks are way more important when you meet them with their friends. A woman's reputation is not on the line when she meets you in private. It is when she meets you with her friends. The same thing as above has been noted. My lay % when meeting women with their friends is SUPER low... Like 10%.
So I tell her, "I'll consider it if you and me can go somewhere first and get to know each other in person before hanging out with your friends." She didn't seem to like that idea. I detected that she didn't like that idea. I tell her, "you're coming off like a real amateur." She didn't like that either.
No contact for a few hours and then, "This party if falling apart. Everyone is pulling out. Now it's just 2 other people coming. My night is ruined. Sigh"
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To shorten this long story: I agree to come to her place. And she agrees to 2 things. 1) We're going to drink together and I'm staying the night. 2) We will go somewhere first and get to know each other.
I get her address, and even though I thought she was only 30-40 minutes away. It turns out she's 1.5 hours away!
When i get to her house, a woman who isn't her stops me and says "park there, she'll be out in a minute." I was confused who this woman was, but it turns out it's her neighbor. She comes out and looks nothing like her pics.
Her face looked similar, but her body had close to 10 extra lbs on it. She was wearing classy clothes in all her pics; she had on jeans & t-shirt when she came out. On top of that, she looked like she had big tits in her pics, and they were at best a B cup.
So I'm disappointed, but hell, I drove 1.5 hours; maybe alcohol will change my opinion temporarily enough to salvage the night...
That's what I thought until I saw the look she gave her friend.
It was a look of disgust.
Greeattt.... I don't like her and she doesn't like me.
Again though, alcohol can change this.
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From my FR last week: some of you might remember me saying when a woman say:
Why is this relevant here?
Because, when I hand her the bottle of Jaeger, I told her I was bringing she says, "Oh, I've decided I'm not going to be drinking tonight. Just not in the mood."
I instantly don't want to be there. But I'm legitimately hungry, so I say, "let's go get something to eat."
Her neighbors are outside (man and woman who are dating; both are under 21) and she starts talking to them. Then she INVITES THEM ALONG and they accept. Go back up and read 1 & 2. She has now officially broke her word on both things. I hate her instantly.
Charm = off
Any attempt to be amusing = off
Not going to lecture (yet). Just going to try to be the worst date ever. They pick a place.
She asks if I want to drive. FVCK NO! So she agrees to drive all 4 of us.
We go there. They're talking among each other about stuff and people I do not know. And generic stuff sheep talk about like what cool movies are out at the theatre. I don't want to be here... I'd rather be at the wrong end of a firing squad.
We get there. I make friends with the guy. He's from the area I'm from and still works there. I also talk to his girlfriend. They're both pretty cool. I pay ZERO attention to the girl.
In fact, I start making a game in my head. Everytime she talks, I pay no attention to what she says and try to change the subject. It works sometimes; other times it makes me look like a social reject; but I really don't care. My disgust is bubbling over.
Her "mom" calls her and says she needs to be picked up from a bar. How convenient... She says "I'm going to have to go pick up my mom, you can't go with me, that's too many questions i don't feel like answering." I don't even ask if she wants me to stick around.
We get back to her place. I go to her freezer and get my alcohol. She sits down outside and says she can talk for a little bit. I say "ok." And continue walking straight to my car and get in and drive home.
There's an accident on the way home and it takes me an extra hour to get home. 2.5 hours+1.5 hours = 4 hours of driving.... Just to hangout with some barely average woman for less than 2.
She texts me that leaving like that was rude. I tell her lying is rude too. She says she wasn't going to drink with someone shes not attracted to and that that's the worst date she's ever had. I say it was the only thing that could have made the drive worth it. Blah blah... childish stuff. Then i say "ok im done. bye"
I guess that prompted her to block me on POF.
END of STORY #1....
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