"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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FR: Of Buckfast, Purple Rain and UG's

GodsGiftToFatBirds

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One thing I noticed from this FR is that you've started using a load of routines from The Game as your openers.

Do you find they work better than just doing things naturally?

Just wondering cos when I read a lot of routines that he uses in that book, I couldn't help thinking that they seemed rather random things to say to someone and that most birds in clubs over here would just look at you like 'what the fvcking hell are you on about mate?'!

Maybe I shouldn't question someone whos apparently the best PUA in the world but I'm interested to see how well you thought they worked here in England.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Sounds like you had a very nice night out.

From the title, since it had Buckfast in it, I thought it was going to involve getting violently drunk and fighting people. For those of you who don't know, Buckfast is a cheap tonic wine.
 
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