"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
FR: (Obliteraga style)
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
[S]alvatore
Master Don Juan
When this happens, you just put those people on your ignore list, so you don't have to deal with them anymore. If you don't want to do this, then yes you deserve to be flamed and are a glutton for punishment.ElStud said:
MMA Juan
Don Juan
Damn straight ChrizZ, and that's the truth...
Too many people are whinging about FR's, status (Senior or Master DJ etc), and proofs etc. Who gives a fvck about that ****? Why should we validate ourselves to others on this forum- people we will most probably never meet or even see.
FR's: who's to say someone can't just bvll**** their FR and say this and that happened. It aint proof of jack sh!t
Status: i can honestly say i've gotten better advise at times from people that are "DJ's" then "Senior" or "Master DJ's" at times.
In the end, fvck the proof. YOU chose to come onto this site, and you choose what advise you think will work or not. If you're not happy or don't agree on someone's point of view, then so be it, you don't ask for fvckin proof, cause who gives a fvck, take what you want and leave the rest.
In the end, who knows what it credible? Like the words of wisdom i've read on this forum before, you cannot succeed without first facing failure. You gotta take what you think will work and believe in, and trial it out. Doesn't work? Then take it on the chin and keep movin...
Peace brothers
-MMA Juan
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
onthepath
Don Juan
he thinks that he is right and everyone else is wrong - clearly a sign of an underdeveloped, adolescent brain
TheVirtualMind
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