"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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FR: Number closed a girl at lunch.

ElStud

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Well at lunch I number closed this girl and with you guys favorite closer! The Rock Band one. Basically I was walking at lunch and opened up the set saying "Hey, are you going to prom?" and she says something like "Yeah, I'm going, but to another schools prom which is on the same day". Then I asked what school and she told me and eventually I started talking about track I think. At one moment I remember asking her if she played baseball and she was like "Oh you mean softball? Yeah". Eventually I was going to end the set, but then I decided I was going to close the set before I ended it. Then I went "Hey, have you heard of this game called Rock Band?" and she's like "I played it yeah". Blah blah, we talk about Rock Band and eventually I'm like "Well I'm going to call you so we can meet up and play it together sometime" and she's like "Okay". Then I take out my phone and she starts putting in the number and at one point says "Sorry, I'm so bad at this" but eventually puts the number in. Then I say "Bye, I might call you or something" and she's like "Okay, bye".

Due to the fact that no one on this board has anything useful or pleasent to say, I will not be replying to any comments made here, good or bad.
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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The Bat

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ElStud said:
Due to the fact that no one on this board has anything useful or pleasent to say, I will not be replying to any comments made here, good or bad.
So then why post this in the first place?

Hello, low self-esteem.

Anyway, good job. Make sure you follow up with it though.
 

The Deacon

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ElStud said:
Due to the fact that no one on this board has anything useful or pleasent to say, I will not be replying to any comments made here, good or bad.
Haha. Just ignore the bad comments dude. I think it's great that you're an approach machine. I also hope that you have a healthy social life on the side as well, otherwise you won't have the experience to know what to do on day 2.
 

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This isn't a reply, but it's funny how clean my threads stay when the KBJ's and haters KNOW I aint going to reply. Haha, that's why they're still bumping my old FR.
 

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Elstud you have got to be the biggest retard on the history of sosuave. What the fvck is your problem? You post the most idiotic field reports I have ever seen in my life. You have no clue when it comes to woman. You are what I call a social retard and a geek.

What the worst thing about you is that you don't take anyones advice. You act like you know it all yet have never even lost your virginity yet you arrogant little nerd. Who gives a fvck you got a number. I will bet anyone here 10 grand that this girl will flake on him just like the others.

I am sorry for the rant but idiots like this who dont' know jack sh1t about woman and come here like they do deserved to get harsh treatment. If you were my little brother I would get you laid by a fat hor and than smack the fvck out of you for being such a moron.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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SinJester

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ElStud I don't know why you bother. I mean posting this with no intention of replying... and then replying? I would have left here long ago if I was you.

Hm is a number close really considered an achivement in HS?
 
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