"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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backbreaker

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I go to K-mart and there are these two girls.. one is a hag and one is about a 6.5 out of 10.. with makeup I could see a 7, 7.5. 18 years old, both of them. although cute, I really wasn't all too interested, as I really don't do the whole young girl thing to much. I mean, I was nice but sorta standoffish, as I had other things I Need to do.

Guys listen and learn. There were these two guys behind me, both trying to talk to the same girl, one was bragging how much money he had, blah blah, and he probably did, but both girls basically gave them the cold sholder.. not bad looking guys, but came off way to desperate trying to impress this girl.

me not really paying 100% attention as I was shopping and filling out a k-mart credit card app, once the guys actuatally leave, I start talking to the other girl, the big one and she was telling me about her BF who is twice her age, blah blah.

anyway, once I do that, the cute one gives me a blank peice of paper and tells me "I need you to fill out some more information for me if you don't mind" and smiles when I look at her (kinda slick, I might have to use that) and it had two lines with one saying name and one saying phone number. so I give her my number and tell her to only take it if she plans on using it.

guys listen again... she told me she would give me her number but she doesn't have a phone.. which is a lie, but I thinkt he reason she didn't give me her number is because she has a BF that she doesn't really like, but nevertheless doesn't want the drama of a guy calling her phone not her BF. She told me no worries, she will call me very soon. I'm thinking okay, sure. I mean, it would be a nice sport ****, but that's about it.

anyway, a) don't come off too desperate, b) always make friends with the possible **** block... I actually like the personality of the fat hagg better...she's just a fat hagg and c) guys, don't assume your girl will be faithful or if you are lik eme, don't assume just because she is single she is not available
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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excellent advice man all 3 of them are true. Although I think u could've got the girl's number instead of giving her urs (not that u have anything to lose from that) but still she may not call and just put u as another notch under her belt.
 

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both of you missed the point. first of all, when she actually asked for my phone number, I was suprised, becuase I can honestly say she was the last thing on my mind.. I mean she was cute and all but not really my type. I wasn't trying to pick her up, and yes, she picked me up.

i picked her up without actually picking her up if that makes sense. in other words, my persona, along with me being in good shape and good looking did all the work for me, i barley opened my mouth. I didn't have to brag about my wealth as the guy next to me did, I didn't have to use some type of pickup line... i was just myself.. and I honeslty belive myself is enough to pick up any woman because I am so well rounded.

i mean right now, I don't even know if I can squeeze her in for a date if she called, because I can honeslty say I am booked with dates for the next three days and thursday I am flying back to arkansas to get ther est of my stuff. Monday I have a date with the chick I bagged last week.. i went out tonight and met this chinese/american chick named michelle that was very cute and very smart a big turn on. i saw her looking at me but she was with I suppose a guy in the LJBF catogory, becuase she just uped and left him and came to sit with me, that's tuesday. Wednesday I have a date with my new massage theripist... i am a massage *****, and the woman that does it for me happens to be a cutie. i asked her out and she said she normally doesn't date clinents but she was thinking the same thing, that she would like to get to know me... and honeslty, out of all the three dates, this one has the most LTR potential, plus she has a smokin body :)
 
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