Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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FR: night game after Boston bc

broken dreams

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Before I forget I wanted to post a field report.

I went out tonight with intetnion of practicing. and I went with my natural wing and his GF. I wasnt going to expose game but I said **** it let blow this place up.

I Got AMOGGED and I was like seeing chodes everywhere w/o game but women gaming them.

REMEBER ITS BEEN AWHILE SINCE I HAVENT GONE OUT AT NIGHT AND I LEARNED ALOT IN BOSTON FROM MY FRIENDS!

I guess as payback to the chode that made out with that girl that was atratcted in Boston, I seeked out for revenge !!

I went out last night and most of my appraoches got blown out and I wanted to leave like a wussy boy but then I remmebred in like the jeffy show and I walked back to the bar it was 3 am and ran more game and reopend sets.

I like all experienced guys point of view on it.

I learned something very valueable based on last weekend in Boston.

that her emotional level of excitement is transfereable,

so I did something very devilish of gaming some freakin chode buying drinks "cherishin " her for 30 min leaning in to talk to her like pecking, but at the moment where I thought she was ready to go home and ****

she went to the bathroom,I got myslef so ready like hunting dear LOL. She came out she is beautiful, So I went direct and she was into me, I did kino and ran attraction she was so into me she was like hey do you came here often?

and the chode must have been looking cause he 's been ammooging me the whole night following me in every set I'd open after that, plus the guy didnt talk to the girl (jealous and insecurity from the guy )

then I noticed HB8 looking at me all the time.

But I ****ed up big time by getting drunk.

that slowed me down my thinking process eventhough game came out well and was plowing.

I had the some sets blow me out and like saying

" Hey Im going home with him"

**** like that then later on one of the girls that said this was by herself w her friends other woman was like " oh Im going home with this one " meaning that guy. Dude it was 4 am I was still plowing I figured to get his experience and 1 number close.

anyways plese give me feedback!
thanks !
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Ten Commandments of Sosuave:

I. Thou shalt not drink and post
II. Thou shalt not be a woman posting as a man
III. Thou shalt not incite personal p!ssing matches
IV. Thou shalt not take IQQI seriously
V. Thou shalt not make "do looks matter" threads
VI. Thou shalt not spend more time on Sosuave than you spend in the outside world
VII. Thou shalt be accountable for one's own actions
VIII. Thou shalt not lament "head games" when one is a grown man dating a girl barely old enough to drink
IX. Thou shalt spin plates
X. Thou shalt never post a serious thread about cohabitating with a girlfriend
 

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broken dreams

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AWESOME thank you!!!

I read socret society, that ****ed me up badly on my concept of GF and women.
But all of them want to be dominated so I will do so.

Thanks !!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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