"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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FR: Nice Bunny gave me something to eat

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Hey guys,

no, not her pvssy. So here is my story:

Today I wanted to go home and had to wait 20 minutes for the bus.
So I went to Kentucky Fried Chicken to eat something.

There was this cashier girl, a HB8 with nice black hairs and big sweet eyes.
There were other cashier girls (HB6 and HB5) but I wasn't interested in them.

I wanted to order from HB8:

HB8: Hi

She said "Hello" to everyone, just "Hi" to me, good sign?

ME: Hi, how is the bla bla burger?
HB8: It is so and so, with bla bla.
ME: How does it taste?
HB8: I can recommend you 6 chicken wings for $2 today. Do you like it hot?
ME: Yes, I like it.
HB8: OK, then take the burger. And I will give you some chicken wings for free, so that you can taste it. :eek:
ME: Ok, see you later.

Hmm, I never got something for free before. She seemed to like me. I ate my chicken wings, btw they taste very good, and the HB6 came to my table.

HB6: Was it good?
ME: Yeah, I like them.
HB6: Do you eat them the first time?
ME: Yes!

But I wasn't interested in HB6 so I went to HB8 again.

ME: It was very good, I will definitely be here again next tuesday.
HB8: Oh, I'm happy about it.
ME: Are you always so freehanded?
HB8: I don't know.
HB6: No, definitely not.

(Hey HB6, shut the fvck up, I thought to myself :woo: )

ME: Will you be here next week?
HB8: Hmm, let me think....yes I think.....ehh no.....Oh ok yes I will probably be here next tuesday. (looking me bad in my eyes)
ME: Ok, see you next week.

Damn, I didn't ask for her number or anything. I think I will do it next week.

I will be there next week and keep you posted. What do you think? Was this an interest sign? She gave me something free to eat and really enjoyed my presence.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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WTF dude?

Should of asked her

You:"Have you ever tried a Grande Mocha Frapa Crapa Chino?"

Her:"No."

You:"Those things are awesome, I'll let you try one free."

Why in the world didn't you atleast attempt a #close?
 
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proceed to kick yourself for a perfectly missed opportunity...
 
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And then make sure that you dont make that same mistake in the future...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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"...so that you can taste it..."
"do you like it hot?"
"do you eat them the first time?"

Such provocative questions man....shoulda used them against her.
 
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HolyG said:
"...so that you can taste it..."
"do you like it hot?"
"do you eat them the first time?"

Such provocative questions man....shoulda used them against her.
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"Would you like a straw so you can suck on it harder?"
 
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Haha, why didn't you just ask her one question, instead of drilling her her on her upcoming schedule??? It was much more work then the direct route!!

Next time you encounter a HB as a cashier and when they ask you "Would that be all?' (they always ask) Say, "Give me your name and phone number" and make a quick quip, "But don't charge me for it!!" and roll your eyes, like this, :rolleyes:
 
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Thank you for your comments. Yeah, you're all right man.
I was so stupid to miss such an opportunity.
I won't make that mistake again.

HolyG, yes that are so obvious questions:cry:

Last Man Standing, thanks man, that is a very good routine.
I will try it next week on her. If she's not there I will try it on another girl.

I will keep you posted.

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