"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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TheSplat

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So Sunday we end up having this bash for all the people I work with as a get to know you better party. Two kegs, probably 60 people, pretty fun stuff. I'll jump straight to the important stuff.

AMOG'd the whole time, in every social context available.

While playing poker, was "teaching" an HB 7.5 how to play well. Alot of kino and some innuendo's being thrown in. A whole lot of eye contact, just flirting, but a lot of it.

Two girls, HB7 and HB8.5 show up and I end up getting the two of them into a conversation. Focused on the 7 and watched the 8.5 get jealous. 7 bounced, 8.5 stayed. We ended up at the end of the party sitting under a blanket on a couch while a group of about 6 smoked. Whenever the room cleared, we made out for 10 minutes. But she's a virgin (and 18), so I didn't really push anything too hard. We made out, felt her up, that's about it. She was begging me to give her a ride home, but I was high and having fun w/ the boys, so I let her call her friends to come pick her up.

8.5 texted me that night at 4 am, and has been texting me the last two days.

7.5 looks like she wants to fvck everytime I talk to her. She just has that look in her eye...you know what I mean.

7 flirts all day w/ me at work, alot of kino, only for me. Nobody else.

I think I ran it pretty good. There's still plenty of hotties up there, and for the first party, to run game where I macked on alot of girls, and hooked up with a hot one...that's nice.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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A good FR and 1 reply? Meanwhile, someone who "opened a set" and pissed off the girls gets 3 pages of replies? Nice...

BTW, I work at Mitchells Fish Market, it's a pretty nice restaurant that opened up in the hottest part of Jacksonville, FL. Nothing but hot girls up there man.
 

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Bro that was an excellent field report...the reason you didn't get many reply's is because from your report...it sounds like your doing well...and well on your way to being a successful DJ. Usually the reason people get a lot of replies is because they don't know what the hell they are doing and need guidance.

Anyway, when I think about your situation...all that comes to mind is the movie Waiting...

You ever see that? Funniest movie evverrr. And they have a nice little kegger at the end too!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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TheSplat said:
A good FR and 1 reply? Meanwhile, someone who "opened a set" and pissed off the girls gets 3 pages of replies? Nice...

BTW, I work at Mitchells Fish Market, it's a pretty nice restaurant that opened up in the hottest part of Jacksonville, FL. Nothing but hot girls up there man.
Hot girls that you probably can't get. Go out in the field before you publicly diss someone else who's actually doing sh1t.

Oh and nice FR man. The board should follow your influence, because truly, not many guys on this board actually go out.
 
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