"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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FR: new work party

TheSplat

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So Sunday we end up having this bash for all the people I work with as a get to know you better party. Two kegs, probably 60 people, pretty fun stuff. I'll jump straight to the important stuff.

AMOG'd the whole time, in every social context available.

While playing poker, was "teaching" an HB 7.5 how to play well. Alot of kino and some innuendo's being thrown in. A whole lot of eye contact, just flirting, but a lot of it.

Two girls, HB7 and HB8.5 show up and I end up getting the two of them into a conversation. Focused on the 7 and watched the 8.5 get jealous. 7 bounced, 8.5 stayed. We ended up at the end of the party sitting under a blanket on a couch while a group of about 6 smoked. Whenever the room cleared, we made out for 10 minutes. But she's a virgin (and 18), so I didn't really push anything too hard. We made out, felt her up, that's about it. She was begging me to give her a ride home, but I was high and having fun w/ the boys, so I let her call her friends to come pick her up.

8.5 texted me that night at 4 am, and has been texting me the last two days.

7.5 looks like she wants to fvck everytime I talk to her. She just has that look in her eye...you know what I mean.

7 flirts all day w/ me at work, alot of kino, only for me. Nobody else.

I think I ran it pretty good. There's still plenty of hotties up there, and for the first party, to run game where I macked on alot of girls, and hooked up with a hot one...that's nice.

TheSplat
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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A good FR and 1 reply? Meanwhile, someone who "opened a set" and pissed off the girls gets 3 pages of replies? Nice...

BTW, I work at Mitchells Fish Market, it's a pretty nice restaurant that opened up in the hottest part of Jacksonville, FL. Nothing but hot girls up there man.
 

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Bro that was an excellent field report...the reason you didn't get many reply's is because from your report...it sounds like your doing well...and well on your way to being a successful DJ. Usually the reason people get a lot of replies is because they don't know what the hell they are doing and need guidance.

Anyway, when I think about your situation...all that comes to mind is the movie Waiting...

You ever see that? Funniest movie evverrr. And they have a nice little kegger at the end too!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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TheSplat said:
A good FR and 1 reply? Meanwhile, someone who "opened a set" and pissed off the girls gets 3 pages of replies? Nice...

BTW, I work at Mitchells Fish Market, it's a pretty nice restaurant that opened up in the hottest part of Jacksonville, FL. Nothing but hot girls up there man.
Hot girls that you probably can't get. Go out in the field before you publicly diss someone else who's actually doing sh1t.

Oh and nice FR man. The board should follow your influence, because truly, not many guys on this board actually go out.
 
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