"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Admittingly I haven't gotten pvssy in over 2 months. In fact, the reason why I've joined this site was because I've been slipping and was hoping to help me get back to what I was. I've been in a slump lately because of school and stress and was slowly revolting back to my AFC ways. Though I've gotten back in track.

So here's what happened, my friend invites me to this party, and I was just drinking and smoking, expecting the same thing to happen like in the last couple parties I've went to; stare at the women and envy the men who get them. Though I was just tired of that sh1t, and decided to go up to this one girl that was all by herself outside. She was a HB7 on my standards. I ask her "Hey what are you doing all by yourself here all alone? The parties inside." We fluff talk for about 3 minutes, I actually forget what we talked about. Though after that I told her "Let's go dance inside," and I grab her hand. She resisted a little, but I told her while pulling her more towards me "C'mon I know you want to." I didn't even wait for a response, I just walked her inside and we danced for 5 minutes.

So after the dancing, I brought her to the kitchen, and we talked a little more. I noticed she was bumping herself into me, so I stepped it up a notch by doing kino, and rolled my fingers from her forehead and moved downwards towards her lips. I went in for the kiss and we just started making out. I slide my hands in her pants and just start fingering her, she was enjoying it. I can tell she was a good girl because she was hairy down there. I've been doing that for a couple minutes and told her we should get a room.

For a while we've just been looking for a room. My friend said that his room is open for any fooling around, but it was locked. A couple must have beat us to it. So I'm just waiting there with her for a room or bathroom to open up, doing fluff stuff, kino, flirting, and then she confesses something. She tells me "I'm so sorry, I shouldn't be doing this, because my friend really really likes you, but she was kind of shy to go up to you." She started resisting. Every time she did, I would kiss her. She would kiss me back, but would later say "I'm sorry, I shouldn't..." but I would just kiss her again. I kept up this process for like 2 minutes, where I decided to just give up. She said "Please, I'll take you to my friend...don't tell her what we did, okay?"

We look around the house for her, and find her in one of the rooms by herself kind of depressed. So I go in and she kind of blushes, I just say "hey." I've seen her around a couple of times from other parties, but I never talked to her. She told me she got upset because she saw me dancing with her friend. She rests her head on mine, and I do kino, flirting, etc. We started making out, and she pulls my pants down and just starts sucking on me. She was really bad too, it did not feel good at all. After a couple minutes, someone knocks on the door. That moment ruined it, and our thing ended there. The only other time I talked to her was when we said bye.

I've made a lot of other approaches that night, but nothing went beyond ****y and funny and just talking. It's not worth mentioning.
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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thats funny as hell dude. 2 girls. 1 wants to suck your kawk. good times man, good times. Just make sure you get the one YOU want! Not jus cos some girl has dibbs on you. fug that. you pick.

its parties like that, that you remember. sounds fun.
 

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Yeah lol the problem is I wanted the first girl, but because of her friend she keeps on resisting.
 

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its an admirable quality imo to have your friends interests at heart. if a guy tells me he really really likes a girl well then i will stay the hell away. imo the girl didn't resist enough. She shouldn't have made out with you, knowing what she knew. Would you do that to one of your boys? I sure wouldn't. so in conc both girls suck. no loss. bring on the next party! wooo!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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swifTy said:
its an admirable quality imo to have your friends interests at heart. if a guy tells me he really really likes a girl well then i will stay the hell away. imo the girl didn't resist enough. She shouldn't have made out with you, knowing what she knew. Would you do that to one of your boys? I sure wouldn't. so in conc both girls suck. no loss. bring on the next party! wooo!
Yeah that's the thing, I knew she was into me because she wouldn't have made out with me, just that she thought about her friend but she did like me.
 

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next time you finger a chick and then go makeout with her friend stick your finger in the second girls mouth and let her taste her friend, she might recognize her.
 

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skirtChaser said:
next time you finger a chick and then go makeout with her friend stick your finger in the second girls mouth and let her taste her friend, she might recognize her.
LOL!!!! That's legend in the making!!
 

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skirtChaser said:
next time you finger a chick and then go makeout with her friend stick your finger in the second girls mouth and let her taste her friend, she might recognize her.
LOL!!!! :crackup:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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