FR Nervous girls. DJing is working!

[92 GSR-4]

Hey all. I just read a thread that reminded me to write this. Please respond and also I'd like to ask a few Q's at the end.

FR: I'm a few weeks into this college semester, and since day one I have always been really open, CF, and overall really confident when talking to girls in my classess. Theres a couple instances in which I want to talk, to point out whats going on, and what I THINK is going on. Also I would like to point out that there are a TON of girls in my age range (19-25), since I have been going at night, and I now go during the day.

First, was in a math class I have to re-take. Theres alot of younger girls in it since it's a base level class. Anyway, day one of class I immediately started talking to the 2 hottest girls in there. There's another girl in that same class that I find attractive. However, I think that I have "established" that I am popular, etc. etc. etc. because I swear theres 6 girls talking to me at all times in the class, and one which I have an unnofficial date with this weekend. Well I think this other girl thinks I am out of her league, when in fact I want to talk to her and get a number. I tried talking to her after she was leaving a class I was about to enter, this is how it went:

*Girl walks out of the door*
ME: Hey! *smiling *
HER:hey
ME: What class is that
HER:*Stops dead in her tracks* I don't know.
ME: You don't know what class your taking?
Her: *eyes get wide, and serious look on her face* You mean the next class?
ME: No, I'm in that class*smiling*, I'm talking about this class your in
HER: It's XXXX (I can't remember what class she said )
ME: Oh ok thats cool
...and she walks off

As soon as she left, another girl standing there turns to me and was like "what was wrong with her, is she stupid?" And I kinda laughed it off, but to me, at first I thought she was pissed that I tried to talk to her or something. Then it occurred to me that she looked nervous. And I have been that nervous before so I can relate. So I think she's avoiding me because I am "popular" when in fact I am just social in my class.

I have a few other things but I'm tired and I have to go to the range tomorrow at 0500. Ahh life of the army. But what do you guys think? I mean, I have girls inviting themselves to lunch with me. I have them freakin stopping me in the halls. I had two girls stop me and say I am in THEIR group for a project. So maybe this particular girl is kinda shy, and she see's that other girls are attracted to me? Maybe she's nervous because of that?

And it eats me up..I LOVE shy girls!

 

[ValleyDJing]

shy girls are the best! its sooo easy!

 

[92 GSR-4]

shy girls are the best! its sooo easy!

Yea when you actually get to talk with them! Here lately my success has been coming from the loudmouth girls that love to talk. Theres 2 girls in that class who are the "popular" ones i guess you could say, and I'm meeting one at the mall this weekend. I told her I need a womans opinion on fashion (thanks sosuave.com). It's wierd. I like this girl, but only on a friends basis right now. Maybe the sexual state will go up when we're outside of school..

 

[cyp6]

nice... keep it up...

 

[92 GSR-4]

ok.. no news on the shy girl. I hope to have something tomorrow. However, I did meet up with the other girl from that class. She sits next to me. Well, we went put-putting. It was fun as hell, and the kino/bodylanguage was money. In the end we ended up kissing alot and when I took her to her car, she wanted to know where we stood.

She asked me if we were"dating" and I was like "yes we are definately dating". And then she wanted to know if she was the only girl I would be dating. So I told her "for now, no but it might change once we know each other better". And basically after one date she wants us to be bf/gf it sounds like.

SO I guess my question is: How can I keep us "dating unexclusively" while I game some other women, without getting her upset or something?

Suggestions please

 

[Phyzzle]

How can I keep us "dating unexclusively" while I game some other women, without getting her upset or something?

You're doing great! If she keeps pushing, give her a time.

"If you can keep being nice to me for 10 more dates, we'll be together exclusively."

I once said that to a chick . . . wow, she pulled out all the stops to ask me out and make sure I had a great time for those 10 dates, so I didn't reject her!

 

[92 GSR-4]

Phyzzle,

I like the advice, thanks! I'll definately use it if she keeps pushing for a relationship..but what about after those 10 dates?!? :crackup: jk jk

Funny thing is, from square one, before we even thought about the 1st date I mentioned that I was dating around and I wasn't really looking for a gf. Then she was saying the same thing about not really wanting a bf. I guess that was all just fluff on her part..