"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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FR: Near Fclose and "The Game" Wannabe

everywomanshero

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I saw a Style wannabe tonight. Down to an absolute total mimac job. I was lucky enough to sit within hearing distance. It was pretty funny. He actually did have a hot 21-23 year old chich for being a mid-thirties, skinny weirdo-looking guy. Proof that at least some women do place far more value on skill than appearance.
I couldn't stop laughing long enough to blow him out, besides if hiding in some other identify works for him for a second.....

My date for the evening went fairly well. I had slept with this girl in the past, so I wasn't going to break my neck trying to overcome LMR. The odd thing is I never got LMR from many chicks at all. This chick knows I mac the town dry and study techniques (she found a notebook stashed in my closet once, got to get a fireproof safe!). I could feel how wet she was even through her jeans, so I know she'll be back soon. Her last words, "what are you doing tomorrow?"
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What does that guy "Style" really look like?? Anybody ever seen him?? I never have. Not on TV or anything. I just finished that book, I liked it alot, but I had a hard time picturing the guy. It's one thing to shave your head, alot of guys do that, and when that's your look that's your look. But I've heard from a few people that he's not really that , alright this will sound gay here, but he's not really that high in the "male HB" rating himself. Yet of course he , obviously , knows what he's doing in the field. I heard he has a hot g/f. What about "Mystery"?? Anybody ever met him?? When I was reading the book, you know how you sometimes kind of "picture" somebody in the "role" of one of the characters?? As if you were casting your own movie in your head?? (Well that's what I often do when I read at least). Well I don't know why but I kept picturing somebody like Vince Vaughn to "play" him. Course that's probably way off-base in real life, but who knows Hollywood might cast somebody like that. I think he could play that kind of part pretty well. But "Style" I had/ have no clue about.

~Dino~
 

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You can see mystery on his website, www.mysterymethod.com

There are a lot of video clips floating online of Style (Neil Strauss) appearing on The View and some other talk shows. If you have any P2P just look around and you will find.
 

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Originally posted by DinoCassanova
What does that guy "Style" really look like?? Anybody ever seen him?? I never have. Not on TV or anything. I just finished that book, I liked it alot, but I had a hard time picturing the guy. It's one thing to shave your head, alot of guys do that, and when that's your look that's your look. But I've heard from a few people that he's not really that , alright this will sound gay here, but he's not really that high in the "male HB" rating himself. Yet of course he , obviously , knows what he's doing in the field. I heard he has a hot g/f. What about "Mystery"?? Anybody ever met him?? When I was reading the book, you know how you sometimes kind of "picture" somebody in the "role" of one of the characters?? As if you were casting your own movie in your head?? (Well that's what I often do when I read at least). Well I don't know why but I kept picturing somebody like Vince Vaughn to "play" him. Course that's probably way off-base in real life, but who knows Hollywood might cast somebody like that. I think he could play that kind of part pretty well. But "Style" I had/ have no clue about.

~Dino~
I've met Mystery, but not Style.

Here's a pic of Style and his hot g/f:

http://www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/artic...ive/2005/09/25/LVGPHEQA941.DTL&type=printable
 

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Thanks... Saw the pics. Style doesn't look how I'd pictured him (but then that's how it usually is). Not a bad looking guy, overall (as long as he keeps that head shaved I guess; he said in his book there used to just be "tumbleweeds" up there, not hair), but he kind of has a sort of "devilish" look about him to me. Maybe it's because he kind of reminds me of like a younger version of that guy Anton Szandor LaVey?? The older guys here might remember that name, the (somewhat tongue-in-cheek) "high priest" of the Church of Satan ? http://www.aes-nihil.com/satan.html I'm afraid that that guy at the top of the page in that link is going to be something like what Style's going to look like in 20 years or so. lol........ minus the sword of course. ;)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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