"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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FR nailed the HB9 attention *****....bonus broke NC with my bpd ex

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Been working this one in the background for a while, straight attention ***** buy hot as hell. Legions of orbiters etc.

Anyway I basically just been negging her and ripping on her for a couple of weeks, replying to her messages hours later if at all, real low investment strategy here.

Got asked over for pre drinks, ignored her pretty much the whole pre drinks apart from getting drinks off her (make them give you stuff)

Got to town went off with my boys get followed by her and her girls, told her "go get a round in" (make them buy you stuff)

Easy from there, escalate kino dance away go home and lay leaving her orbiters looking like depressed frogs.

I'm not good at field reports but this one just came down to knowing the nature of that beast and treat as appropriate. I have much better frame control than I used to.

It was interesting watching her orbiters buying her drinks and blowing up her phone and making fools of themselves. That used to be me so I feel for the brothers.

Talking of which for some stupid reason I sent my bpd ex some text about if she's keen for a 3 way and had a bunch of messages from her this morning so every silver lining has a cloud.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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